I will definitely check out both the resources . Thanks for helping

Yeah I would like some resources that will help me . About my anxiety no I haven't gotten any support or resources because I have always been like that so I thought I could deal with it .

Yeah I feel anxious often when things don't go according to my plan or if I make any mistake and things like that . I have always try to do the right thing you know and sometimes I am little hard on myself . I just thought if I did something like that my trauma isn't valid but now I can see that i a...

So as long as everyone is comfortable it is fine right? And if they are not bothered by it that means they are consenting to this right ?

Hi Siân ,
Thank you for reaching out if you think talking about my own trauma will help me we this guilt then I am happy to try . But first can you please answer the questions I mentioned above .

Another thing I would like to know is that can please explain in which scenario this kinda gesture is fine and in which scenario it is not with examples if you don't mind because i would like to know this thing properly for future because as you said earlier context matters

Do you think there was consent of my friend when it happened even if I didn't explicitly ask her ?And do you think there might be a possibility that I am overthinking about this whole thing coz I have a serious problem of overthinking ?

Hi Sofi,
Thank you for your kind words I know that I was young but that was still an inappropriate behaviour I can't do anything now but I will try to do better in future . And thanks for suggesting that app I definitely try it .

Yeah from now onwards I will be careful about mine or someone else 's boundaries . Well when I said I was healing I meant that I had nightmares about it that stopped for some time but now it's back I guess and I used to think about my assault so much that I couldn't focus on anything but after some ...

It's not about me letting go my feelings . After my incident I was very sensitive about this topic and it made me extremely angry . As a victim I know the pain of sexual abuse so the fact that I can do this kind of thing makes me want to kill myself . I am glad that she didn't feel violated by it be...

No I am not saying in an abusive manner . So last week I saw a lady in a shop chasing her toddler and when she caught him she lightly slapped his butt . Does that count as sexual abuse?

Hey Sam W , Thank you so much for replying back . I just don't know why but this thing is bothering me . I can't think about anything else . No matter how much I try to convince myself that what happened was totally okay and I should move on I can't . I am grateful that she didn't feel violated by i...

When I was 14 I was groped by someone . I was in a terrible condition and had constant nightmares about it . After 2 years I started healing a little bit but a few days ago I saw a video about sexual harrasment and assault which made me realise I might have assaulted or harassed someone when I was y...