The thing is, I still feel like looking into queer communities still wouldn't help since I'm still Cisgender, still straight. "The conversation" usually happens after a month or so of getting to know someone, and only if I am interested in them. The conversation usually starts with me sayi...

All my friends are strait (as far as I know) and I am too, so that's not a problem. I just feel like I'm too into BDSM, even compared to those my age who I have heard say they were into it too. Anyone I have tried to share my feelings about it with, whether it was long-time friends, or new ones, or ...

My goodness it's like looking in a mirror of me 3 years ago (I'm 16 and came across BDSM when I was 13, and literally everything you said was 100% relatable). I don't know if it's weird for me offering to be a ear to listen because I'm two years older than you, but if you are cool with it, I'm cool ...

I don't know if this goes against community guidelines as lewd or whatnot so if it does, I apologize in advance and will remove it if notified. I just thought if there was anywhere I could talk about this topic, this is probably the place. So let's start with sexual attraction. I'm attracted to fema...