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- Tue Apr 30, 2024 3:01 am
- Forum: Sexual Identity
- Topic: hate myself for being attracted to men
- Replies: 4
- Views: 3056
Re: hate myself for being attracted to men
the guilt is from being attracted to men because they are terrible selfish beings, i hate them and yet i am attracted to them. i am deadly scared of them, every day when i leave the house i am painfully aware that i may not return anymore because of a man. that my life could be ruined, permanently s...
- Mon Apr 29, 2024 12:31 am
- Forum: Sexual Identity
- Topic: hate myself for being attracted to men
- Replies: 4
- Views: 3056
hate myself for being attracted to men
what the title says. i'm bisexual and recently i got a crush on a girl in my life. previously i thought i couldn't at all be attracted to women because nearly all my fictional and famous crushes are cis men (whom i don't really like thinking of as women, unlike some people i know) but when i realist...
- Fri Apr 19, 2024 11:52 am
- Forum: Et Cetera
- Topic: attracted to a fictional animal from a popular children's show
- Replies: 3
- Views: 1538
Re: attracted to a fictional animal from a popular children's show
hi sam, thank you for your answer. yes, this was sort of unexpected even to me, although i've experienced attraction to many other fictional characters. in personality, some were even similar to bandit (from the show bluey; that's who the character is by the way) to answer your question: first of al...
- Fri Apr 19, 2024 9:45 am
- Forum: Et Cetera
- Topic: attracted to a fictional animal from a popular children's show
- Replies: 3
- Views: 1538
attracted to a fictional animal from a popular children's show
recently a popular animated show that my younger brother watches has come out with a new episode. i've watched it with him, along with some other episodes. the cartoon is about a family of dogs, in an universe where dogs are basically like humans. unbeknown to my brother (and basically everyone) i'v...
- Fri Apr 05, 2024 8:14 am
- Forum: Bodies
- Topic: can't finger myself. vaginismus?
- Replies: 16
- Views: 6967
Re: can't finger myself. vaginismus?
yes, i stopped when i felt pain, i only took what i was comfortable with.
and yes, i was reassured because i previously thought nothing at all could be inserted, and it also felt sort of nice at some point?
and thank you for the resources!!
and yes, i was reassured because i previously thought nothing at all could be inserted, and it also felt sort of nice at some point?
and thank you for the resources!!
- Fri Apr 05, 2024 1:25 am
- Forum: Bodies
- Topic: can't finger myself. vaginismus?
- Replies: 16
- Views: 6967
Re: can't finger myself. vaginismus?
PS: also last night i got aroused enough and could fit a bit more than the first phalange of my middle finger, i even attempted to put another finger in. it hurt but i felt that it was stretching.
at a point it was physically painful but mentally reassuring, in a way? is all of this normal?
at a point it was physically painful but mentally reassuring, in a way? is all of this normal?
- Fri Apr 05, 2024 1:21 am
- Forum: Bodies
- Topic: can't finger myself. vaginismus?
- Replies: 16
- Views: 6967
Re: can't finger myself. vaginismus?
hi Sam w, you have also been a big help to me. opening this thread has gradually made me less ashamed of this issue and talking about it. the other day i showed that to my mum with a mirror (we do have the kind of relationship where if there's something wrong or confusing with my vulva i can tell or...
- Wed Apr 03, 2024 12:46 pm
- Forum: Bodies
- Topic: can't finger myself. vaginismus?
- Replies: 16
- Views: 6967
Re: can't finger myself. vaginismus?
thank you so much for the replies willa and heather.
my main hypothesis for it is indeed a septate hymen, but i can't know for certain until i see a gyno, i'll ask my mother to and from the way we talked about it this morning i can tell she is not against it
my main hypothesis for it is indeed a septate hymen, but i can't know for certain until i see a gyno, i'll ask my mother to and from the way we talked about it this morning i can tell she is not against it
- Wed Apr 03, 2024 1:08 am
- Forum: Bodies
- Topic: can't finger myself. vaginismus?
- Replies: 16
- Views: 6967
Re: can't finger myself. vaginismus?
hi, i have an update. i inspected myself with the mirror and found that there's a piece of flesh blocking the entrance, and that there seems to be two or three holes instead of one. i don't mean the urethra, i mean that this piece of flesh has two or three openings, of which in the bigger one i can ...
- Sun Mar 31, 2024 9:01 am
- Forum: Relationships
- Topic: i want sex but crush is ace
- Replies: 3
- Views: 1780
Re: i want sex but crush is ace
thanks for the answer latha. i'm not sure now if i should pursue the girl, i want both our needs to be met. i need to think about it.
- Sat Mar 30, 2024 3:06 pm
- Forum: Relationships
- Topic: i want sex but crush is ace
- Replies: 3
- Views: 1780
i want sex but crush is ace
before i get into it: i know there is no rush and things will happen when they are due, but that does not stop me from desiring to begin sexual experience like i would desire to get into a school or go to a place. i have had a crush on this girl for at least a month or so, it is slightly fading thou...
- Sun Mar 03, 2024 12:52 am
- Forum: Relationships
- Topic: uncertainty & making a move
- Replies: 3
- Views: 3470
Re: uncertainty & making a move
so, with M, things went horribly wrong. he had a clashing political opinion with me which i just couldn't forgive, and he's horribly egocentric and pretentious. also, he says that he thinks dating as a teenager is a waste of time and he prefers to focus on serious things. i don't know whether to fee...
- Tue Feb 27, 2024 9:23 am
- Forum: Bodies
- Topic: can't finger myself. vaginismus?
- Replies: 16
- Views: 6967
Re: can't finger myself. vaginismus?
hello, i started reading the article, but it says Some people feel no pain at all, while others, with a thicker vaginal corona, have reported some pains. There may be minor ruptures in the mucous folds that hurt, and sometimes there may be a little bleeding. and that is what i'm afraid of. you say t...
- Sat Feb 24, 2024 2:51 pm
- Forum: Relationships
- Topic: uncertainty & making a move
- Replies: 3
- Views: 3470
uncertainty & making a move
hi scarleteam, here's the sitch. i have crushes on two people at once. one is this girl who i met a few weeks ago (i'll call her F) and we instantly "clicked" in a way? i managed to cuddle with her while watching a movie, we held hands and she did the thumb rub thing, i've kissed her foreh...
- Sat Feb 24, 2024 2:31 pm
- Forum: Bodies
- Topic: can't finger myself. vaginismus?
- Replies: 16
- Views: 6967
Re: can't finger myself. vaginismus?
i've told my mum about the issue. i told her about trying to finger myself and she said that she can't tell if it's normal or not as she never fingered herself when she was still a virgin. when i told her about the tampons she said it might be wrong insertion and/or inexperience of the first few tim...
- Thu Feb 22, 2024 7:20 am
- Forum: Sex & Sexuality
- Topic: received nudes from an older guy
- Replies: 1
- Views: 2165
received nudes from an older guy
so, there's this young man (about 22/23yo) who i met once, we both were with our parents so we all met together. this is important as my mum knows this guy. once on instagram, kind of jokingly, i put a note saying "who wants to model for my art ;)" as my art tends to be artistic nudes with...
- Tue Feb 20, 2024 11:40 am
- Forum: Bodies
- Topic: can't finger myself. vaginismus?
- Replies: 16
- Views: 6967
Re: can't finger myself. vaginismus?
no i have not, besides i'm not sure if the gynecologists in my country can do those sorts of exams yet for someone who is still a "virgin". and i'm too ashamed to tell my parents about what's going on, as i can't go to a gyno autonomously
- Fri Feb 16, 2024 8:35 am
- Forum: Abuse & Assault
- Topic: is it still SA with no penetration or nudity?
- Replies: 9
- Views: 18994
Re: is it still SA with no penetration or nudity?
sorry for the late reply. yes, i think that or something similar could work.
if i see him and i'm alone i can easily avoid him, while if i'm with my family i already know how to act.
this reminded me, i'll ask them to warn me whether he'll be present at some occasions so i can avoid him.
if i see him and i'm alone i can easily avoid him, while if i'm with my family i already know how to act.
this reminded me, i'll ask them to warn me whether he'll be present at some occasions so i can avoid him.
- Fri Feb 16, 2024 8:18 am
- Forum: Bodies
- Topic: can't finger myself. vaginismus?
- Replies: 16
- Views: 6967
can't finger myself. vaginismus?
i am once again talking about this problem. ever since i started masturbating i've only ever used external stimuli. my attempts at fingering were never successful, yesterday i tried again with my middle finger after i felt aroused and wet enough. with some pressure and initial discomfort, i could on...
- Sun Nov 05, 2023 3:41 am
- Forum: Et Cetera
- Topic: wanting to publish a story with a sex scene
- Replies: 1
- Views: 4880
wanting to publish a story with a sex scene
so, i've seen there already was a thread about a teenager who had previously posted smut fanfiction. but my issue is a bit different. there is an original story that i am writing, and it's complicated to explain right now but for now i plan to just write various short stories from that universe. in ...
- Sun Oct 22, 2023 9:03 am
- Forum: Abuse & Assault
- Topic: have i been emotionally abused?
- Replies: 1
- Views: 10578
have i been emotionally abused?
a thread about me trying to get some clarity about the SA i suffered has left me thinking about the relationship i shared with this guy. i was close to him during most of my life. we'd been dating on-off until he did that (but there have been other instances of him touching me inappropriately before...
- Thu Oct 12, 2023 12:52 pm
- Forum: Abuse & Assault
- Topic: is it still SA with no penetration or nudity?
- Replies: 9
- Views: 18994
Re: is it still SA with no penetration or nudity?
yes, yes i would.
i'm still thinking of the possibility of seeing him somehow, and i don't know how i would get out of it. i've now realised how fucked up he acted, and i hope that i don't fall into the trap again.
but i'd need some help
i'm still thinking of the possibility of seeing him somehow, and i don't know how i would get out of it. i've now realised how fucked up he acted, and i hope that i don't fall into the trap again.
but i'd need some help
- Thu Oct 05, 2023 8:34 am
- Forum: Relationships
- Topic: male friend crushes on me
- Replies: 7
- Views: 8236
Re: male friend crushes on me
hello scarleteam, an update: I CUT HIM OFF FINALLY!!! i had contemplated just letting it fade, but he was always reaching out for an interaction, even a lowkey one. so on one of those times i asked to discuss about the situation, and told him all about how this has happened to me, and how i felt unc...
- Sat Sep 23, 2023 9:53 am
- Forum: Relationships
- Topic: male friend crushes on me
- Replies: 7
- Views: 8236
Re: male friend crushes on me
nicole thank you so much for the answer.
yes i still need to process it all.
besides his interactions continue being passive, and i keep having these doubts: when and what will i tell him? and should i block him?
yes that would be good thanks.
and i do have friends and family to support me.
yes i still need to process it all.
besides his interactions continue being passive, and i keep having these doubts: when and what will i tell him? and should i block him?
yes that would be good thanks.
and i do have friends and family to support me.
- Fri Sep 22, 2023 9:31 am
- Forum: Relationships
- Topic: male friend crushes on me
- Replies: 7
- Views: 8236
Re: male friend crushes on me
hi heather. thank you for the answer. i don't really think that i want to be friends with this guy anymore: i feel things can no longer be the same and somewhat... betrayed? if that word is suitable. i thought that i could trust him, i thought i was wrong about him, but i was right all along. we are...