it has happened again to me, a boy who i thought i could just be friends with is crushing on me. and he doesn't even respect my queer identity, still calling me by my dead name although i told him at least twice that i don't like it. i am serious when i say this is the fourth time it happens with di...

hi Latha. and nevermind about ovulation, my discharge today is red and brown which indicates that i'm about to begin menstruating. although i thought that you only get cramps *during* the bleeding, not a few days before? and the discharge and feelings were just random. but yes, they are painful but ...

lately i've been getting symptoms of ovulation when it should be my PMS days. i've always had a very regular cycle so this seems odd to me. ever since i started school, sometimes nearly every day i'll get strong uterine cramps that i usually get when i ovulate. one day i even had the typical dischar...

hi latha and thank you for your answer and insight too. yes there definitely was some sort of pressure from both our families, including his family. and there's my younger brother who is still a kid and is friends with this guy since they share a passion for video games, and my brother knows that th...

so i'm trying to write erotic stories (for my own enjoyment, not going to make them public until i come of age), and since i don't have much experience but i do know some things, i am wondering about this. so it is already well known that virtually no AFAB person comes with p-in-v penetration. but i...

thank you for your answer and support sam w. i have reflected on the time spent with the guy and truth is that we have had a complicated relationship for most of our lives, dating on-off, sometimes he'd hate me sometimes he'd be head over heels, but for the most part we were best friends, then... he...

i want to ask because i don't know if it's valid that i was left traumatised from things that weren't forceful penetration or someone ripping clothes off me. so if attempting to touch someone's breast, cornering someone, dry humping someone, and initiating a kiss with someone unwilling counts as SA ...

hello scarleteam, me again. i am practicing an instrument. my teacher is a guy in his 30s, average looking. i have been getting intrusive thougths about him of sexual nature, trying to convince me that i am attracted to him. during practice i would get random thoughts of him in sexual situations, an...

i thought that my body was done growing and that i now had the phisyonomy of an adult. apparently it isn't so. i had a growth spurt last year, my body is changing shape constantly, and only recently is my acne acting up when i've had smooth skin for the rest of my life. plus, i only started to feel ...

sorry i come back to this after a very long time. anyways. my memory is fallatious so i don't remember exactly what he said, but a lot of it was "not all men, women rape/assault/kill men too..." and he mentioned a recent case with a celebrity couple when people thought the woman was the as...

(i am not in the new house yet but soon i will) after an embarrassing encounter, i have been allowed to lock the bathroom door anytime i don't want to be seen.
and my mum has started knocking when i was in my room and the door was closed.

i feel like i have achieved some kind of victory.

updates. looking back from the turmoil of when the thing happened, A had basically molestated me. he initiated and i did not know what to do. i "froze" and let it happen. i faulted myself over it so i told my boyfriend that it happened, but not the precise dynamic. we are now better in our...

hi logan, thank you too for your answer. so yes i will do so. i think that i will actually have a serious "sit-down" conversation, after i eventually ask her to knock. i will be preparing myself to hold this conversation in the meantime. and no, we never talked about it if she wasn't react...

hi sam w and thanks for the answer. i think this will be a good solution. when we'll be in the new house, i'll close (but maybe not lock at first) the door while i'm changing. if she walks in without saying anything and i'm exposed, i'll ask her to knock next time. we'll see how it goes from that. a...

soon we will move to a new house. for now i share a room with my sibling, but soon we will have a room each. thing is: my mum will put some of her stuff in our rooms and will enter our rooms to get it. i don't want that to happen, but when i only neutrally asked why, she answered angrily that she ha...

they don’t see me as i am. they just see “a cute girl”. maybe one they can treat like a doll and use to their liking. it’s always like this. i’m a mixed queer boy. and i’m fat too. and i also have two partners. no idea why i only attract these types of people, i must be doing something wrong. never ...

hi nicole. thanks for this answer. i'm very sad about it too. she had been my friend for all my life, at least seemed to care for me and enjoy my company, until she didn't. she was a huge liar, double faced, concieted and vain. at a point i had gained a bad habit of spying on her social media from i...

i have quite a few problems with my behaviour. i always tend to make myself the victim in everything, get always offended and feel called into question even when there's nothing to do with me. also sometimes i say things and i mean them neutrally or even jokingly but they offend people. for example ...

so, yesterday i was checking out my private with a hand mirror, and i noticed that a lot of it was brown, when the other times i checked it was pink. what could be the causes? i've googled yesterday and most of what i remember is that it happens in puberty. i think mine is basically done since my pe...

before we start talking: this is no recent thing. it happened in may. last year me and this friend (i'll refer to her as R) were going good, but by the start of this year our friendship was already falling out, i was the one who talked a lot about myself while she didn't talk much about herself. we ...

hi sam w, the pain is basically gone. today i have peed with no pain whatsoever, and i didn't need to go a lot. also no incontinence or leaks, and the only cramp i recall recently was in my ovary due to the recent end of my period. also, is hand on clit okay if i wash my hands? (and i could get cond...

hi scarleteam, me again. so, i've been starting to have UTI symptoms when i was abroad. i'd hold my pee for long until it hurt, had a few small accidents, and when i peed it was not much. i would often get pain before or after peeing, or a few times even at random. worth mentioning that my hygiene w...

also, i don't like it when people say liking older men is cos of "daddy issues". i love my dad so much, he is a great person and i think that he is the person who treated me the best and loved me the most in all my life. we have a great relationship. with my mum though, not so much. i've n...

okay so, i am on the asexual/aro spectrum and define myself as grey-acearo. the definition of grey-asexual is someone who experiences limited sexual attraction, or only in certain circumstances. (same with romantic). i have chosen to use that term since it resonates with what i feel somehow. so, as ...

thanks a lot carly. yes i am starting to realise that, trying to work stuff out and all. no, not anymore, i stopped therapy last year, before some other problems started surfacing (like my loneliness and this misandry thing). and then again, that therapist has been my therapist ever since i was abou...