Thank you guys! Its been a year after posting but we’ve made progress! After more conversations with my boyfriend I have gotten more comfortable and been able to let myself enjoy the sex and the orgasms. I was just way too in my head and really wanted to be *perfect* for him.

Hi Bubbles, I do want to check; is this something that only happens during sex and masturbation? Or do you find you have trouble controlling your bladder at other times to? You're already doing one of the major pieces of advice, which is urinating before you have sex. I do want to mention that beca...

Okay so I’m 22 and I’ve been sexually active for about 6 years and have masturbated since like 7 or something idk. In all this time I can ONLY achieve orgasm without peeing if I’m grinding on a pillow or riding my boyfriend. If we’re having sex and we’re doing missionary or doggy he will eventually ...