Hi there, i did go see a gynecologist and i thought about updating this with the results. I have a tight septate hymen and cannot physically insert anything without hurting. That’s why none of the ‘being relaxed thing’ ever worked. My gynecologist’s pinkie was enough to hurt me and draw blood. She s...

Thank you. You’re probably right i will try to talk to her about getting me an appointment. Well i usually am a stressed and private person. I would say the thing i am the most stressed about is the explaining my problem/talking part (which kinda feel like a failure on my part) and showing my intima...

Thank you for your quick answer! I’m glad i’m not the only person dealing with this but i must say it doesn’t help too much.. i’ve never been to a gynecologist but i’ve thought of it. My mom doesn’t think it’s useful for me to go as long as i’m not having sex with anyone and i don’t feel like tellin...

Hi, i’ve been carrying this for a long time and if you had any answers, it would be super helpful. I’ve been asking myself if i am just being useless or if my body is somehow broken. I’m an 19-year girl, i’m still a virgin and i’ve never managed any vaginal penetration. I’ve tried for years now to i...