Heather Corinna

Being inclusive of disabled people in sex education and sexuality as a whole benefits those of us who are disabled, but it also can benefit everybody.

I was watching a debate about sex education today, one rife with a lot of ludicrous statements, but the statement that quality sex education could not possibly help prevent sexual abuse stuck with me. It was all the more infuriating as someone who knows too well that a lack of knowledge about bodies and sex, and a lack of information about sexual consent and autonomy are some of the hugest reasons why sexual abuse is so prevalent.

Here’s a basic introduction and a shared conversation with adolescent therapist and author Dr. Lynn Ponton to clue you in on what to expect from the couch.

At age 17 during my senior year of highschool, I was at a crossroads. “Should I turn against my religious beliefs and how I was raised or should I listen to my heart and live the life that I want?” I chose to be a righteous Christian and a good daughter. Yet, I felt more disconnected with my Faith each time I prayed about my “ungodly” feelings.

I was thinking about all of you a lot last night, and was feeling something about you I realize I’ve never had the chance to share. When I’m working with you, while I always leave wishing for much better things for all of you, I also leave always feeling very inspired by you, and reminded of good things about myself when I was your age I often do forget and really shouldn’t, and which I also really didn’t know back then.

You should experiment and communicate with your partner and should do the things together and alone that feel uniquely good for both of you – not just one of you – at any given time. In all truth, the answer to situations like this really are that simple, and there’s not a whole lot more to it…

Are you at a point in your life and relationship where you’re considering moving in with a partner? We’ve got the scoop on some things to consider, talk through and get going in advance to be sure that if you make the move to shack up, it’s a good one.

I’m going to tell you a few things you probably already know, but they might be good ways to explain to anyone who doesn’t already know them. Heterosexual people are usually only or primarily romantically and sexually attracted to people of a different sex or gender than they are. That means that…

Does your relationship need a basic checkup to be sure it’s healthy and well? Here’s a list for doing just that.

What’s it mean to be questioning, why would you or someone else identify that way, how do you deal in the process and how might you answer the question?