Bdsm question relationship
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Bdsm question relationship
I had a primal kink and the girl i like has a ddlg brat kink both for bdsm, how can we have what we want in a relationship
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Re: Bdsm question relationship
Hi Nick,
Some people find that their kinks are negotiable. But for others, they are only into one particular thing in one particular way. I'd say the only person who can tell you more about what might work for you... if they are interested at all, that is, is her!
You also need to ask yourself, that if you find she isn't into your specific wants, if it's ok to seek still seek it out.
From me that's a pretty strong no. It's worth speaking to someone, getting to know them, finding out what might be intersted in. But they don't want what you want, it is important to accept that.
Some people find that their kinks are negotiable. But for others, they are only into one particular thing in one particular way. I'd say the only person who can tell you more about what might work for you... if they are interested at all, that is, is her!
You also need to ask yourself, that if you find she isn't into your specific wants, if it's ok to seek still seek it out.
From me that's a pretty strong no. It's worth speaking to someone, getting to know them, finding out what might be intersted in. But they don't want what you want, it is important to accept that.
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Don't see why they call it lonesome.
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Don't see why they call it lonesome.
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Re: Bdsm question relationship
Thank you
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