I’ve having trouble with masturbation
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I’ve having trouble with masturbation
Hello! For a couple years, I’ve been trying to masterbate (I’m a girl btw) and when I try, i feel nothing, I’ve tried going very gentle, rough, tried to watch different kinds of porn, but nothing, except my own personal fantasies in my head, but only a few times. What should I do?
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Re: I’ve having trouble with masturbation
Hi Deeerpill,
It can sometimes take quite a bit of experimentation to find the type of masturbation that works best for your body. It sounds like you've had at least a few instances where it felt good, so one thing you could try is repeating the things you did those times to see if you can pinpoint what elements bring you pleasure. You could also take a peek at this article to see if there are suggestions that you're interested in trying:
How Do You Masturbate?
Too, some people find that introducing a sex toy into the mix helps them masturbate in a way that feels good to them. Is that something you'd be interested in trying?
It can sometimes take quite a bit of experimentation to find the type of masturbation that works best for your body. It sounds like you've had at least a few instances where it felt good, so one thing you could try is repeating the things you did those times to see if you can pinpoint what elements bring you pleasure. You could also take a peek at this article to see if there are suggestions that you're interested in trying:
How Do You Masturbate?
Too, some people find that introducing a sex toy into the mix helps them masturbate in a way that feels good to them. Is that something you'd be interested in trying?
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