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how to overcome performance anxiety i m using stop and go method but i have performance anxiety that's why i got premature ejaculation i think ): please help
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We have a bunch of articles that talk about dealing with this situation; here's one with links to some others, which would be a good place to start: I Ejaculate Too Fast! How Can I Fix This?
rajaman
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thank you as i read it was all good but i wants to reassure below line from the above article that is it correct because i seen in porn that sex got over after men ejaculation

"there is no need for sexual activity to be over just because you’ve ejaculated."
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Hi rajaman,

That line is definitely right! The thing about porn is, it can be enjoyable to watch but it's not a great way to learn about how to have sex. It's kinda like trying to learn about space travel by watching Star Wars; what we're seeing on the screen might be but it doesn't really show reality.

Here's an article you might find interesting about porn: Looking, Lusting and Learning: A Straightforward Look at Pornography
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