Hey Jbbxrnes,

Can you share more about why this makes you feel weird? Do you feel it is wrong? That it is no longer just desire, and you are actively planning for a child? I'm just trying to get a better idea of why having these thoughts are bothering you.

Hi Memekid, I'm sorry that you have been feeling so sad lately. I can imagine that all of the ups and downs in the way your mom is treating you is beyond stressful. I hope that you get in with the therapist soon because this really is the best place for support, both with the emotional stress all of...

Good question Jacob, definitely don't think this is something that I have thought about as much as I should. I'm legally married, so there would be quit a bit of logistics that go into ending our relationship. And really, since we have children it is more about how the relationship changes since our...

Hi Butterfly9, This is definitely not in your head. In general, it sounds like your work environment isn't very comfortable. I can't imagine many, if any, places it would be appropriate to yell at an employee. That paired with the personal questions and over interest in your relationships...is a mes...

Hi turtle5, Welcome to the boards. I see you are having a difficult time right now, but glad that you found us. As far as apologizing goes, I think all you can do is be sincere the way that you have been here. Once things have cooled down and you have had a chance to speak with your boyfriend, you c...

Would you be comfortable asking her again? I can't speak for everyone, but I think the concern here is that your mom might be telling you that she is following up on the therapy and simply hasn't or doesn't plan to. That might not be the case, but from all the things that you have shared here, havin...

Hi Lost, It is not unusual for periods to be different (including symptoms)! In fact it is more normal than not. The short answer is that sex does not change the way that your body functions. You can find a more detailed answer here as well as some tips for dealing with painful cramps: http://www.sc...

We consider most questions on "how pregnancy occur" as a pregnancy scare post. Heather has already answered your question, what you are describing would not change that. I am going to lock this thread now as per our policy.

By "allowed to have" or you referring to medication of items to masturbate with? I'm not surprised that you would be having reactions to medication, especially ones that have not been prescribed to you. I am glad to hear you are able to toss them without your mom finding out. With this beh...

Hi Edgal, I'm sorry this has been stressing you out. But since this is a "what if" scenario it is considered a pregnancy scare post, which we do not answer. The policy is listed below as well as links to information on handling anxiety. We will not answer ANY questions about pregnancy fear...

Regular does not mean the same number of days each month. It is actually "regular" for a period to vary in length, when it occurs, etc. What you are describing sounds like you are having a regular cycle. If you want more information on menstruation you can find it here: http://www.scarlete...

Yes, cold sores are caused by herpes. You can find more information here: http://www.scarleteen.com/article/sexua ... les_herpes

I'm sorry Memekid! I did make an assumption, and as Sam said, I was just concerned for your safety. I put the information out there without clarifying in case it was information you might have needed immediately.

I try to make time for one or more of these things daily, even if it means leaving our apartment in the middle of the night: Working out Creepy TV shows or movies (anything with some sort of mystical or evil creature/character is my shish) Style magazines Action movies at the theater (I usually go t...

Hi Memekid, It sounds like what you are describing could result in self harm. If you are having a desire to hurt yourself or want to talk about what happened, then you or someone you know can get in contact with a 24 hour hotline such as National Suicide Prevention Life Line (call: 1-800-273-TALK) o...

Hi Loladdie, That is really a decision for you to make for yourself. What are your thoughts on the matter? Is it something that feels right for you? Something that you want to do? We have an article that you might find helpful: http://www.scarleteen.com/article/politics/casualcool_making_choices_abo...

We will not answer ANY questions about pregnancy fear or anxiety in our direct services from users who are not pregnant or who are not or have not otherwise been directly involved with an actual pregnancy. Please do not post this kind of question. If you are seeing this text, and your thread is loc...

Memekid, I can not stress enough that you do NOT deserve this type of treatment. You have not done anything wrong, and despite what the CPS agent said, this is not normal nor a healthy form of discipline. From everything you have said, your mother seems uncomfortable with you exploring your sexualit...

We will not answer ANY questions about pregnancy fear or anxiety in our direct services from users who are not pregnant or who are not or have not otherwise been directly involved with an actual pregnancy. Please do not post this kind of question. If you are seeing this text, and your thread is loc...

I'm so sorry that you are having to deal with this right now and second guessing your decision. It takes a lot of courage to make that type of call and you should have been heard. It is more than unfortunate and a failure to protect youth when claims are not taken seriously. I wish I could offer you...

Hey hedjoss, Updates range. Anytime a change is made to an article it is updated, that includes information. For the time being you can find the most recent information on what does and does not pose a pregnancy risk here: http://www.scarleteen.com/article/bodies/can_i_get_pregnant_or_get_or_pass_on...

Hey Scarrx,

Totally understand. Being comfortable with your decisions and determining your own values is harder than it sounds, so good for you!

I'm glad you all were able to have this conversation and you are feeling more comfortable! Let us know if you need anything else.

Hi Memekid,

That's a good idea. If you are concerned about her checking the phone you could save the number under a fake name.

I'm also really into my butt, but digging my whole body at the moment. I recently started strength training and muscles are coming through! Exercising has made me feel really good about my body because I feel active in taking care of it and making it strong.

Hi Caligirl, I have a MSW as well and I individualized my degree to focus on sexuality & health. I choose an MSW for the same reasons that Sam mentioned but I don't think there is a specific degree that is better than the others. Sometimes it is hard to find a job that is specifically sex educat...