By impractical i just meant if something were to happen I don't know how much I would see him and I bet it'd be so difficult. Yeah I have this thing where I look far ahead into things when nothing signals it is actually going to happen if that makes sense? I wish he lived closer but maybe the distan...

That's the thing I don't know! I just keep thinking how impractical it'd be being with someone who lives so far away. The time difference makes it difficult for us to chat as well but ever since he told me he wants to see me again, I just can't stop thinking about him.

Yeah I feel as though we connected, he just seems like such a gentleman like the night I met him he gave me his jacket as he could tell I was freezing. He has said he'd love to meet up and get to know me better which makes me want to see him more! What do I do?!

Hi, i met a really nice guy abroad back in August, he was so sweet and spent the whole night talking to him. Thing is we've got each other on social media now and he has said how he wishes he could visit me and things like that which puts lots of scenarios in my head in which we could be doing. I ju...

Hi! I'm back! So I bit the bullet and asked him if he likes me over message. I tried to get my friend to get an answer from him but it didn't work haha. He told me 'Not sure how to reply because I don't know the answer' so I was put out as you can imagine so I told him basically that it's ok when I ...

Also he's out with his mates a lot and I feel as though we can't have alone time without the other guys knowing. There doesn't seem to be a right time other than texting him but I don't know if it's the right thing to do over message?

It honestly makes me very nervous! In all honesty it's getting me a bit down because like I said earlier there doesn't seem to be as much flirting and I'm paranoid I've done something wrong. But we are still talking nonstop so I really don't know :/ I'm also paranoid because we've been talking for s...

Also I meant to say in the past he has said over message before he leaves to go somewhere, 'love you' and I obviously responded but last night I said it to him taking charge and all. He replied back with 'love ya bud' :/ him saying that makes me think I've been friend zoned but he said a couple week...

I feel very nervous putting it out there and asking him, we are both shy anyway but when I was talking to my friend about it she said I might have to make the first move as he's very shy. I'm just scared of making the first step because I have such little experience with relationships and I'm scared...

Hi, So I'm friends with a guy and we've been talking nonstop over social media for months, when we see each other in person we go really shy. I can't stop thinking about him and always want to be with him so I guess that proves that I like him but I'm getting paranoid because there doesn't seem to b...

Yes that totally makes sense! Thank you for everyone's advice and help, really needed this in writing so I can look back and reassure myself that I can make my own decisions and if people disagree then that's their fault I shouldn't worry so much about what everyone thinks about me and my choices

Also I'm a pretty insecure person especially when it comes to my height, I'm quite tall for a girl and would absolutely love to be 3 inches shorter. how tall a guy is is a big deal to me (I know it sounds silly) so not knowing how tall the guy I'm talking to is in comparison to me, is proving to be ...

I think the possibility of a relationship scares me as the person gets to know a lot about you and I'm quite an independent person. I haven't discussed people's opinions in detail with my therapist, no

You're right, thank you I do appreciate it!

There is the main concern about ruining the friendship we have and the group we're in. However I just think with my lack of experience what if I'm not good at the whole relationship thing? I just worry about what people think (as previously mentioned as he does look young for his age) also I worry a...

Ok thank you, I suppose I just have to think for myself and forget what others think. I love talking to him and it honestly scares me that I might be falling for him.

Ok thank you, it's just difficult because it makes me think that I have disappointed her or something. Silly I know but I overthink pretty much everything

Very true! Thank you so the thing is to go with what feels right even if her opinion might differ?

Thank you so much for listening, you're totally right. I just hate being centre of attention and I feel like I'm overloading the therapist about my problems but I know that's what they're there for.

Yes it does make sense I just really care what she thinks when I know it's only my opinion that should matter

I am still receiving it but I'm scared to tell them that this is bothering me, as I feel it's a bit of an overshare.

Me and my mum are pretty close and I tell her a lot of stuff that might be puzzling me. Yeah I guess there's my best friend I could talk too. Thing is I care what my mum thinks and her having this opinion affects me.

I have this fear that people will think less of me because I haven't had sex yet. I think people judge if you're a virgin, I'm still a virgin at 19 which is pretty bad. I know people always tell me it doesn't matter but I'm such an anxious person and if people were to know, I think they'd judge me f...

Also I feel like if I see him my mum would be annoyed with me, I said just as friends but it's as if she doesn't believe me. She actually said if we were to date, she said we would look silly as she thinks he looks young for his age

I just think as well that if it's me and him what if it's awkward because he's a shy person and I'm obviously an anxious person. Just scared of saying the wrong thing or having nothing to talk about.