My grandmother will think I'm not going as a girl, and that she needs to buy me clothes for Homecoming. So, I'm considering telling her I'm wearing a dress to Homecoming.

Right, but you get to disagree with that and still do what you want with your money. Coming up with a lie to try and avoid just saying, "I know you feel that way, but this is how I like to spend my money," just seems senseless, you know? I get that there is so much conflict at home you pr...

Yeah, the thing is though, I worked for the money and I'm unemployed right now. So, she feels I shouldn't buy things for my friends and I should save the money.

A friend who definitely isn't my date, but is going to the dance, my grandmother might bring up a question as to why I'm paying for her ticket.

So, my friend made a deal with me, I pay for her and my ticket, and she'll do my makeup, hair and lend me a dress and heels. I have more than enough money, but I need an excuse as to why I'm paying for her ticket.

Any ideas on how to take senses away, or make them more heightened? Also, what about interesting sensations that can be made from a variety of things?

Sometimes I want genital stimulation, which totally is a bit of an oxymoron considering the dysphoria I have down there. Also, I do admit that sometimes I feel that I have to have stimulation down there. (Although, I know I don't need it.) I'm not sure why, I think it's because I associate it with s...

Orgamsms are nice, but I honestly dislike how they feel now. (I'm not sure how that will be later down the road, once I'm on estrogen my orgasms may change a bit.) I also get dysphoria from the whole ejaculation part. (I hate even thinking about it.) I also get dysphoric from the lady tree getting e...

I've done both before, and sometimes it's worked by situation.

Is there any risk with being tied up and tickled, gag or no gag, and being tickled for longer than at least 5 minutes at a time?

Probably pissed, she might still try to talk about it, still.

Is there a minimum age? Also, could I still be a volunteer if I'm not always available on the weekends? (At all, I mean.)

Usually, I run into issues with dysphoria before I even touch when I'm aroused. And if by rare chance I do ever orgasm, for any reason, I don't really find it satisfying. I'm really confused, and a little concerned because I'm not sure if even after I'm comfortable touching down there, whether that ...

I actually don't feel bad for setting that line.

Not really.

Yeah, at the most I just wanted to get it off my chest.

Well, I kinda already told her very akwardly, we're still friends but she just doesn't feel the same way.

I want to bring up these feelings because well, she is a very sweet gal, and I honestly think I might fit with her better than the other crushes I've had recently. Also, I think our closeness might be the reason I have feelings in the first place. The sexuality thing may become an issue at some poin...

She still says my body-related dysphoria is just insecurities about my body which I refuse to acknowledge. She now thinks trans people are mentally ill. And also, she still says I haven't given her a good reason why I'm a girl. The only boundary I've put up is not to go on if I say to stop.

My feelings might put strain on me and her if she ends up saying no to dating. Also, because we were friends for so long and I recently started having sexual and romantic feelings for her I'm concerned some may think I've had them and just started to admit it because I'm desperate or something.

So, this friend, let's call her Y (for the sake of anonymity) I've been talking to for at least 3-4 years although we stayed friends even when I started talking to her a lot more during last school year, and she's been out of high school for at least a year now. I started to have feelings for her, b...

So, my mother still doesn't understand why I am trans. Besides that she's still trying to and only digging a bigger hole now. However, my mother asked and from the sounds of it, believes that I am trans for special attention and to be basically fetishized. (Which while I have fantasies where I usual...

I feel like this is something that a lot of people do with friends, like a completely platonic friend. But, some times I feel like I'm being a little too open even know my one friend is a chill person I can trust. My guess is it's just social mores or something causing me to feel this way?

Is there any issues, presuming you're in a realitively secluded area in the woods or whatever, with this?

I've kind of fantasized about having like plugs or clamps on in public. Is there any issues with that?