Hi KittyPink, Some things I can think of would be clothespins (as long as you watch out for splinters!), and those magnetic clip things meant to hang things on your fridge. This seems like something that would be fairly easy to find alternatives for, but it might take some experimenting to find exac...

Hi there, welcome to the boards :) It's definitely understandable to want a straight (haha) answer when it comes to your sexuality, but unfortunately I can't give you that. What I can give you are some resources to help you get a clearer view of your sexual orientation and hopefully make things a li...

Hi radicallyunique, welcome to the boards! I'm sorry that you're in this situation. Unfortunately, I am all too familiar with my sexuality not being accepted by family members. I can give you some advice on navigating this, but ultimately you have to make a decision- whether that means not coming ou...

Hi there, welcome back to the boards! First of all, it sounds like you're feeling pretty great about your relationship with your boyfriend- that's awesome! And I understand that you're feeling frustrated about not being able to orgasm, but it shouldn't be the one thing keeping you two from having a ...

Hi there, Jellowl! I 100% agree with you about UTIs- they suck. It sounds like you're pretty aware of preventative methods, which is great, but it's definitely frustrating to feel like you're doing everything right and still getting UTIs. I'm gonna link you to a few sources which I think might be he...

Hi there, welcome to Scarleteen! I can't tell you for sure what's going on, but from what it sounds like I don't think this is anything to worry about. You said you only notice it when you go to the bathroom- is it fairly light, not a lot of flow? And is it more opaque, or do you think it could just...

Hi Madd, Here's an article that could help you figure out what's going on: http://www.scarleteen.com/article/gender/from_ow_to_wow_demystifying_painful_intercourse Can I ask, have you tried using lube? The answer to your problem could be as simple as that! However, I would encourage you to read the ...

Hi aj2234, I would definitely suggest using a backup method of contraception, especially if you're unsure about how regularly you've been taking your pills. Here's an article that should help you out: http://www.scarleteen.com/article/sexual_health/the_buddy_system_effectiveness_rates_for_backing_up...

Hi Kim, Using a condom when giving a blowjob helps prevent STD and STI transmission, so it sounds like a win-win to me. It's pretty unlikely that you'll damage the condom while giving a blowjob, but it sounds like this is causing you some stress. If that's the case, do you think it might be better t...

Hi girly, I noticed you asked a similar question on the boards a few days ago. Did you see that a staff member responded to you? In response to your question, here are a few resources that might clear things up: http://www.scarleteen.com/article/advice/why_hasnt_my_cherry_popped http://www.scarletee...

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Hey Kela,
I think it's definitely a good idea to get a full round of STI testing done, just to be sure. In terms of the itching, what kind of lube are you using? Take a look at the ingredients. Glycerin often can cause irritation and yeast infections, so it's something to watch out for.

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Also: as Sam said, coconut oil (and any oil-based lubricant) breaks down latex condoms, and it can also break down certain sex toy materials! If you're going to start buying/using sex toys, make sure the material you're using is compatible with oil-based lube. If you can get your hands on it, water-...

Hi Catherwren, I definitely agree with you. Mainstream media also often has a detrimental effect on how people, especially girls, women, and AFAB (assigned female at birth) people view themselves and their bodies. It's good that you recognize this, and it would be great if you could use that positio...

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Yessss I love this show so deeply <3
Garnet is objectively the best character, honestly. If I had to grow up with just one of them as my parent figure, I would want her. I also am partial to her songs!
Did anyone watch Gem Harvest? It's adorable and exactly what we need right now.

Hi Catherwren, In terms of presentation, as Heather said, underclothes (like underwear, bras, binders, etc.) are a great way to play or experiment with gender expression. Another option that has helped me feel comfortable in my own gender presentation is scents- perfume, deodorant, etc. As an AFAB (...

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Also: do you have the information leaflet that came with your pills? If so, you should be able to find what you need in there. As Edith said, the mini pill only has progestin, while the combined pill has both estrogen and progestin. Your leaflet should tell you what hormones are in your pill. If it ...

Hi Dakota1, If you're concerned about the effectiveness of your pill, it's probably best to use condoms as a second form of birth control, at least for the time being. No method of birth control is 100% effective, but using condoms as well as the pill will increase effectiveness no matter which pill...

Until around eighth grade, I refused to wear dresses, the color pink, or anything "girly." I prided myself on being a tomboy and loved it when people called me weird (my little gay heart was queer before I even started having crushes). In middle school I started wearing makeup and dressed ...

I've been thinking about this a lot lately. My current partner of six months is the first person I've dated since early high school. A lot of my hesitance about dating people comes from this fear/anxiety about inevitably breaking up, and it's definitely been hard to deal with now that I'm finally fa...