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People react differently to stimulation, so there is no "normal" or "abnormal". As long it is not painful or hurting you I don't think you have to worry much about it.

Thinking about "possible" scenarios is not very productive. As Karyn mentioned, the risk would be low but there is still a risk. If someone wants to prevent pregnancy by all means their best bet is to use a birth control method. It could be hormonal or a barrier but at least one of them.

There is really no way for us to know what does "this" mean. As Sam already said, periods can change and if something didn't happen before it doesn't mean it cannot happen ever. Checking with a healthcare provider is always a good idea when someone is sexually active, anyway. If this is bo...

A late period is usually defined as a period which has not arrived five or more days since the very latest someone expected it.

Condoms, all by itself, have a very high efficiency rate, actually!

You can see more about this, here: http://www.scarleteen.com/birth_control_bingo_condoms

I'm going to leave this article just in case it helps you: http://www.scarleteen.com/article/bodie ... ifications

Pleasure means something different for everyone so this is one of those things that you can only know with lots of communication and some trial and error. When we are starting to be sexual with someone new to us (circumcised or not), the best we can do it talk. A lot. And keep in mind that when we d...

There is just no way for us to tell you why or what does this changes mean. Bodies are not machines so they won't always react the same way. Periods can and often will vary and there are a lot of reasons for this to happen such as changes in food, sleeping patterns, stress and many more.

When a condom breaks is going to be very visible. Something like when a balloon pops, it just can't go unnoticed.

And no, there is no such thing as "microscopic rips". If it breaks, it breaks completely and you will know.

Hello there, punkishjerk. Welcome to Scarleteen. :) Every person is different and develops at their own pace. There's no such thing as "the right" age to start being sexually active as there's no age when you should already be. Readiness is something very personal and will vary from one to...

I always find it the word "weird" very 'weird" and the word "normal" very "abnormal". :) There are no rules about what should makes us feel good or not. And whatever makes us feel good one day can totally make us feel different another. People are not machines prog...

Hello there, Catherwren. :) It's awesome that you want to do this! There's a lot of ways someone can be an activist without ever being in a protest. Depending on what issues you are more interested you can always find a way to maybe do some volunteering work. Volunteering is not only very important ...

DH117, If you are having suicidal thoughts or are feeling the need to hurt yourself I will advice you to contact a 24 hour hotline such as the National Suicide Prevention Life Line (call: 1-800-273-TALK) or Crisis Text Line(TEXT: “GO” TO 741741). Here at Scarleteen we are not trained to help people ...

Hedjoss, Many volunteers have already spent time talking to you about this topics. As Heather say in the previous thread about this same topic (you can read it here: http://www.scarleteen.com/bb/viewtopic.php?f=12&t=4701&p=25732#p25732), "if one is unsure if there is a pregnancy, the th...

Hello there, Eliza. I hope it's okay to chime in with some ideas. Sometimes is helpful to focus on some object around to help yourself grounded. Like, maybe a blanket. You can focus on the color, the pattern, how does it feel when you touch it. For some people that works. Then, when you are feeling ...

The answer is not going to be different from what you already read. There's no way to know if there is or not enough sperm cells to create a pregnancy in anybodies pre-ejaculate that's why if people want to be on the safe side birth control methods are the way to go. Now, if you are interested in ta...

Hello there, Dakota1. :) The main difference between the Combined pill and the Mini is that the combined pill has two different hormones, estrogen and progestin. The mini pill only works with one, which is progestin. The combined pill works in three different ways: thickening cervical mucus, prevent...

Yes. Pregnancy is not something that will happen with every intercourse. A pregnancy needs a lot of factors to happen. If you are interested in learning about how pregnancy happens you can do it here: http://www.scarleteen.com/article/bodies/where_did_i_come_from_a_refresher_course_in_human_reproduc...

We will not answer ANY questions about pregnancy fear or anxiety in our direct services from users who are not pregnant or who are not or have not otherwise been directly involved with an actual pregnancy. Please do not post this kind of question. If you are seeing this text, and your thread is loc...

Hello there, Kabith, and thank you so much for your interest on helping Scarleteen.

Right now I do not have the information to confirm this but as soon as someone else come in they will answer to you, okay? And again, thanks!

Hello there, Peonies. It is absolutely understandable that you are still eerie about this but just want to say how amazing it is that you are open to try again. It show's a lot of awesome-ness from you. :) If you have someone and trust them it is okay to ask for help about this. If they are not the ...

We will not answer ANY questions about pregnancy fear or anxiety in our direct services from users who are not pregnant or who are not or have not otherwise been directly involved with an actual pregnancy. Please do not post this kind of question. If you are seeing this text, and your thread is loc...

We will not answer ANY questions about pregnancy fear or anxiety in our direct services from users who are not pregnant or who are not or have not otherwise been directly involved with an actual pregnancy. Please do not post this kind of question. If you are seeing this text, and your thread is loc...

Hello there, Libra. Welcome to Scarleteen! :) I am not an expert in this issues but when someone with more knowledge comes around they will pick up your question for sure. But I wanted to let you know that someone saw your question and that we are not spacing out replying to you. But what I can say ...