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by pianolover
Sun Jun 02, 2019 10:39 pm
Forum: Abuse & Assault
Topic: Afraid
Replies: 3
Views: 3020

Re: Afraid

thank you for suggesting that I think it is a good time for raching out for help.
by pianolover
Fri May 31, 2019 9:38 pm
Forum: Abuse & Assault
Topic: Afraid
Replies: 3
Views: 3020

Afraid

I have been feeling afraid lately mainly of the outside world. I'm graduating highschool in about two weeks. I have been coming across a lot of knowledge about myself and at times its overwhelming. I've been feeling insecure in my body mainly in clothes while im in public. Also I'm afraid of people ...
by pianolover
Mon May 06, 2019 10:22 pm
Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
Topic: Vulva
Replies: 18
Views: 5986

Re: Vulva

The first question you had regarding my family is hard to answer . I try to be the most understanding towards as others as I can and I never really understood their reasoning for pointing things out like my body hair. Like literally they'll make fun of me for having arm pit hair and then after like ...
by pianolover
Sat May 04, 2019 6:30 pm
Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
Topic: Vulva
Replies: 18
Views: 5986

Re: Vulva

No, not really. I have a friend that I talk about stuff but sometimes I feel like I'm being too much for her because it seems as though I'm the only one reaching out. I guess I can try to talk to her about it
by pianolover
Fri May 03, 2019 3:46 pm
Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
Topic: Vulva
Replies: 18
Views: 5986

Re: Vulva

I feel like it's not feeling safe and supported at home and a lot of my life. And I might blame myself for not getting the support I need.
by pianolover
Thu May 02, 2019 6:47 pm
Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
Topic: Vulva
Replies: 18
Views: 5986

Re: Vulva

On the initial question I asked I feel like I want to dive in with why I feel wrong about having these experiences
by pianolover
Thu May 02, 2019 6:46 pm
Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
Topic: Vulva
Replies: 18
Views: 5986

Re: Vulva

I guess your right, I see a lot of people experiencing the things that I do. I feel like they might handle it better than I might. Like they might feel more confident in who they are but I can't assume that. Some of my questions are as follows How do you deal with wanting to have sex but not feeling...
by pianolover
Wed May 01, 2019 8:21 pm
Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
Topic: Vulva
Replies: 18
Views: 5986

Re: Vulva

I also was curious if there any workshops/blogs about self-care,fashion,design,grooming,and things like that.
by pianolover
Wed May 01, 2019 8:21 pm
Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
Topic: Vulva
Replies: 18
Views: 5986

Re: Vulva

Okay, I would like to talk more about this.Thank you
by pianolover
Tue Apr 30, 2019 10:23 pm
Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
Topic: Vulva
Replies: 18
Views: 5986

Re: Vulva

I was in a rush when I wrote the previous post; all of the grammar is messed up! I don't know if it was clear enough but I guess it is pretty common to sweat around that area when moving around a lot. Today wasn't as bad but I was definitely sweating. I'm going to have to find some clothes to help b...
by pianolover
Tue Apr 30, 2019 8:06 am
Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
Topic: Vulva
Replies: 18
Views: 5986

Vulva

Does anyone else's Vulva, Vestibute, Vagina, and even more names; get sweating if your're doing a lot of exercise. And maybe not wearing good clothes when you're moving around? Any tips to deal with this? I get so stressed out and embarrassed when this happens to me. I feel like I'm doing something ...
by pianolover
Mon Apr 22, 2019 3:19 pm
Forum: Et Cetera
Topic: romantic dream of my friend
Replies: 14
Views: 9633

Re: romantic dream of my friend

By being you! I have been grateful for all that you all have done already. A simple reply is awesome. Having resources that I can read on that gives me insight on to similar things I may be dealing with.
by pianolover
Fri Apr 19, 2019 5:27 pm
Forum: Et Cetera
Topic: romantic dream of my friend
Replies: 14
Views: 9633

Re: romantic dream of my friend

I think that allowing myself to have complicated feelings is a good piece of advice but seems hard because i want to fix things right away. But that is something I can work on. I also feel changing my mind is something I've been working on and its been hard. I think allowing yourself to change your ...
by pianolover
Wed Apr 17, 2019 12:28 pm
Forum: Et Cetera
Topic: romantic dream of my friend
Replies: 14
Views: 9633

Re: romantic dream of my friend

I feel like this dream had to do with having sexual desires for someone is a lot more valid for me then I want. having sex doesn't fit into my life right now and probably won't for a few years. I've had sex a year ago and I don't know how I felt so comfortable then. But realizing that I'm not ready ...
by pianolover
Wed Apr 17, 2019 12:07 pm
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: Boundaries
Replies: 8
Views: 6440

Re: Boundaries

i'd imagine that acknowledging that you're both human and allowed to have feelings. To let yourself experience the feelings and talk about them with each other if you're both comfortable. Maybe laying down or doing something that is comfortable for you both. Those are some ideas I have that would he...
by pianolover
Mon Apr 15, 2019 2:51 pm
Forum: Et Cetera
Topic: romantic dream of my friend
Replies: 14
Views: 9633

Re: romantic dream of my friend

Yeah, I agree. Thank you all for your help
by pianolover
Mon Apr 15, 2019 12:44 pm
Forum: Et Cetera
Topic: romantic dream of my friend
Replies: 14
Views: 9633

Re: romantic dream of my friend

I do things that I like and sometimes I reach out to people through my phone like using scarleteen
by pianolover
Sat Apr 13, 2019 4:00 pm
Forum: Et Cetera
Topic: romantic dream of my friend
Replies: 14
Views: 9633

Re: romantic dream of my friend

It's this doubt that I have for myself that thinks I need to be in a relationship and that I know, isn't true. Then there is a part of me that WANTS to be in a relationship. A romantic relationship, where we go do things together, kiss, develop a strong relationship, get to know one another, and tak...
by pianolover
Thu Apr 11, 2019 5:04 pm
Forum: Et Cetera
Topic: romantic dream of my friend
Replies: 14
Views: 9633

Re: romantic dream of my friend

Maybe im scared of the feelings of being scared.. I don't know if that makes sense. I think what I mean by this is feeling like i might disappoint myself if i don't pursue a relationship with her and feeling like i might disappointment myself and her if i try to have one. I don't really want one rig...
by pianolover
Thu Apr 11, 2019 1:02 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Anal Incidents and Partner Conflict
Replies: 7
Views: 4284

Re: Anal Incidents and Partner Conflict

I just realized I posted in the user to staff only forum. Sorry..
by pianolover
Thu Apr 11, 2019 1:01 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Anal Incidents and Partner Conflict
Replies: 7
Views: 4284

Re: Anal Incidents and Partner Conflict

I think its important to acknowledge your feelings about this situation and honor them.Then you can also honor and respect your partner's feelings. Sometimes any approach to sensitive topics can be hard. Also no matter what you say and how you say it can be hard on yourself and her. You can tell her...
by pianolover
Thu Apr 11, 2019 12:54 pm
Forum: Et Cetera
Topic: My Partner said something that made me feel worried about her
Replies: 48
Views: 19744

Re: My Partner said something that made me feel worried about her

I'm not sure what you're asking when you say how long its supposed to stay? But if you're talking about the discomfort, its different for everyone. Jacob said allowing yourself to be with those feelings can help you deal with them in a healthy way. It gets better being with your emotions when you ca...
by pianolover
Thu Apr 11, 2019 12:35 pm
Forum: Et Cetera
Topic: romantic dream of my friend
Replies: 14
Views: 9633

romantic dream of my friend

As the subject announces, I had a romantic dream of my friend. Someone I have known for a year and a half now. And well I'm attracted to her and in my dream we were together. When we kissed it was awesome. And when I caught her staring at me in my dream I felt awesome as well. I'm a female. So this ...
by pianolover
Thu Apr 04, 2019 5:15 pm
Forum: Sex, Culture and Politics
Topic: Talk show
Replies: 8
Views: 7308

Re: Talk show

Thank you
by pianolover
Thu Apr 04, 2019 1:07 pm
Forum: Sex, Culture and Politics
Topic: Talk show
Replies: 8
Views: 7308

Re: Talk show

That is smart, the station is called [edited - HC]