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by Lola2018
Tue Apr 03, 2018 5:51 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Scares and pleasure
Replies: 9
Views: 4542

Re: Scares and pleasure

I take this apply to me

In our direct services, Scarleteen staff will no longer answer or engage with ANY questions or discussions stemming from or about pregnancy fear or anxiety from users who are not pregnant or who otherwise are not or have not been directly involved with an actual pregnancy.
by Lola2018
Tue Apr 03, 2018 5:50 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Scares and pleasure
Replies: 9
Views: 4542

Re: Scares and pleasure

Thanks!
by Lola2018
Tue Apr 03, 2018 1:17 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Scares and pleasure
Replies: 9
Views: 4542

Re: Scares and pleasure

Was my question too dumb and that’s why I’m not getting an answer ?
by Lola2018
Tue Apr 03, 2018 4:43 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Scares and pleasure
Replies: 9
Views: 4542

Re: Scares and pleasure

I just wanted to know if I did good. And if I have nothing to worry about.
by Lola2018
Mon Apr 02, 2018 7:29 pm
Forum: Supporting Each Other
Topic: Share Your Pregnancy Scare Experiences & Advice
Replies: 45
Views: 155217

Re: Share Your Pregnancy Scare Experiences & Advice

Omg i love this space!!! Reading all your stories makes me feel better and sorta normal ? I have had pregnancy scares and anxiety ever since my first manual sex ages ago. Now I can actually enjoy sex p in v. I’m still kinda scared but I’m working on it. Telling myself that I had safer sex (used cond...
by Lola2018
Mon Apr 02, 2018 3:37 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Scares and pleasure
Replies: 9
Views: 4542

Re: Scares and pleasure

Oh and I think I just got the flu or something.. I sneeze a lot Anayd have. A runny nose.
by Lola2018
Mon Apr 02, 2018 2:18 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Scares and pleasure
Replies: 9
Views: 4542

Scares and pleasure

Hi! I know I have a thing for pregnancy scares... and I’m ashamed of it. This time I’m not that scared which is awesome. I also actually enjoyed sex for the first time in my life !!! Which is more than awesome. I had a lot of sex tough.. always with condominium. It never broke ( if I didn’t see it b...
by Lola2018
Fri Mar 16, 2018 4:58 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Sex condom fertile window
Replies: 2
Views: 1733

Re: Sex condom fertile window

Perfect just what I needed! Thank you :) I was excackyy wondering if those rates applied for every time or just like none fertile days.
by Lola2018
Thu Mar 15, 2018 8:40 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Sex condom fertile window
Replies: 2
Views: 1733

Sex condom fertile window

Is it safe to have sex in my fertile window with a condom??? I don’t want to end up pregnant but I want to have sex that weekend. I know I cant rely on a app but I’m supposed to be ovulating on a Tuesday and I want to have sex on Thursday.
by Lola2018
Thu Mar 15, 2018 9:23 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Re-handling pregnancy scare anxiety
Replies: 8
Views: 4216

Re: Re-handling pregnancy scare anxiety

Just got it. Thanks :)
by Lola2018
Thu Mar 15, 2018 4:15 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Re-handling pregnancy scare anxiety
Replies: 8
Views: 4216

Re: Re-handling pregnancy scare anxiety

I’m
Sorry guys I’m starting to freak out a bit. I thought I finally got rid of this anxiety. And even though u know I must get my period in kinda worried.. I hate it. Why do I do this to myself. Not fair.
by Lola2018
Wed Mar 14, 2018 3:39 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Re-handling pregnancy scare anxiety
Replies: 8
Views: 4216

Re: Re-handling pregnancy scare anxiety

Is it ok if I keep you posted for when I get my period (it should be in two days or so)
I don’t wanna loose touch.
by Lola2018
Wed Mar 14, 2018 3:33 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Re-handling pregnancy scare anxiety
Replies: 8
Views: 4216

Re: Re-handling pregnancy scare anxiety

Thank you so much it helps me a lot to feel better.
I feel a bit guilty of not being so worried. But I keep telling myself that if the cod on didn’t brake I’m not pregnant.
by Lola2018
Tue Mar 13, 2018 11:50 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Re-handling pregnancy scare anxiety
Replies: 8
Views: 4216

Re: Re-handling pregnancy scare anxiety

Thank you so much guys!!!!! I know I should talk to him.. I used to to to my ex about my anxiety and he wanted to send me to a shrink (i just wanted support) he said I was crazy. And with my current boyfriend I’m treating to keep things cool, calm and drama free. I have talked to him about how much ...
by Lola2018
Tue Mar 13, 2018 5:06 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Re-handling pregnancy scare anxiety
Replies: 8
Views: 4216

Re-handling pregnancy scare anxiety

Hi :) As you might know I used to have big anxiety issues regarding pregnancy scares. This time I’ve been super chill until today.. I should get my period in 3 days or so. And I know I’ll get it because you told me that contact from penis to hand to vulva doesn’t present a risk. And also because the...
by Lola2018
Tue Mar 13, 2018 4:59 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Better girlfriend better sex
Replies: 3
Views: 2447

Re: Better girlfriend better sex

Thank you Sam! I’ll read it carefully. It’s a lot of info :)
by Lola2018
Sun Mar 11, 2018 10:29 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Typical vs perfect use
Replies: 2
Views: 1387

Re: Typical vs perfect use

Thanks !!
by Lola2018
Sun Mar 11, 2018 10:20 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Better girlfriend better sex
Replies: 3
Views: 2447

Better girlfriend better sex

Hiiiiiiii Ok so last year I had very little sex (4 times tops.. and before that I was a virgin ). Problem is I used to have a looooot of pregnancy anxiety issues. I think I’m “cured” now.. I mean I’ve had sex (ok once) and I’m not freaking out like last year.. sometimes the thought crosses my mind b...
by Lola2018
Fri Mar 09, 2018 7:06 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Typical vs perfect use
Replies: 2
Views: 1387

Typical vs perfect use

Hi :) I’m thinking of having sex. I don’t like the pill so I rely on condoms. I’ve read here that condoms are 85% effective with typical use and 98% with perfect. What’s the difference between typical and perfect use (so I can use it perfectly )? Also why is it 98% even with perfect ?? I really don’...
by Lola2018
Mon Mar 05, 2018 5:47 pm
Forum: Site Help & Service
Topic: Everyone agrees with the answer ?
Replies: 3
Views: 16216

Re: Everyone agrees with the answer ?

Yes! Thank you :) I guess my question was like the first example you gave me. Thanks :)
by Lola2018
Mon Mar 05, 2018 5:07 pm
Forum: Site Help & Service
Topic: Everyone agrees with the answer ?
Replies: 3
Views: 16216

Re: Everyone agrees with the answer ?

Autocorrect I didn’t mean “the perfect one” I meant the “correct one” as in accurate.
by Lola2018
Mon Mar 05, 2018 5:06 pm
Forum: Site Help & Service
Topic: Everyone agrees with the answer ?
Replies: 3
Views: 16216

Everyone agrees with the answer ?

Hi :) I made two questions today and I got an answer thank you very much! But do you always agree with the answer given ? I mean if one volunteer gave me an answer are all the volunteers and founder ok with the answer ? I mean the answer given to me is the. Perfect one without a doubt. Thanks sorry ...
by Lola2018
Mon Mar 05, 2018 10:14 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Rhythm?
Replies: 4
Views: 1720

Re: Rhythm?

Ok.. thanks.
by Lola2018
Mon Mar 05, 2018 10:01 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Rhythm?
Replies: 4
Views: 1720

Re: Rhythm?

With clue app (I’ve been doing it for about two years )
by Lola2018
Mon Mar 05, 2018 9:47 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Rhythm?
Replies: 4
Views: 1720

Rhythm?

I would like to have sex. Tomorrow (it’ll be the 18th day in my cycle... my cycles are anywhere from 26 to 30 days long).
If I have sex in day 18, and the condom breaks am I at a risk of pregnancy???
I really hope it won’t break though.