we talked to each other about things we don't like about the relationship or things we did. we give each other more space. we try exercises to remain calm. and wdym by no?

not really. but i want an opinion tbh. do you think if we really work on this. we can become a healthy relationship again and be together

we are taking a break now to work on it. so if we both done some sort of abuse we need to recognize it ig. tbh idk if what he did was. that was the only thing he ever did. i did a lot more on the other hand. even before his situation happened. ive been trying to better cause i love him. i asked so m...

he accepts me for things i cant accept myself. and what i stated was the only time he did that. yes i believe he shouldnt of but i cant be hypocritical when i have done things as well. i just wanted to ask idkf that is abuse

so what he did was abuse then. trust me ik what i did was and i havent done it since. i use to do stuff like that in my pervious relationship cause i thought it was ok but i realized it wasnt when i started dating him and ive been trying to work on it ever since. i have anger issues and he has emoti...

i have a lot of issues and as does he. his dad was very abusive and i grew uo with extremely bad anxiety. yea ik it isnt healthy. but i rly do love him. i have a hard time trusting because mt ex cheated on me so badly then tried to only use me for sex while he had a gf and lied to me about it. we ha...

i told him i didnt like that and he apologized a lot and said he'll work on the boundaries thing for me. it changed positively he's been trying hard to stick to my desired boundaries. and ik its tough cause i enforced them so suddenly after weve been doing it for practically a year but hes trying

i have one more ig. this was a long time ago but me and my bf use to have problems and i woukd accuse him of cheating a lot. and we were in the car and he was tryna talk about it and i like fake slept so i didnt have to talk about it in the car with his ma and his little cousin. i like leaned on him...

so what should i do

lol so i have another. ig i started thinking. do u think its abusive/aggressive behavior like when i get up from bed and he like grabs me and holds me cause he doesnt want me to get out of bed. i said uk u do it hard and he says he doesnt mean to he just doesnt want me to get out of bed or like the ...

i was upset and maybe even felt like that but i dont think he meant it in any harm

i have and he's been accepting of it

I mean ever since the incident in the 1st post i've been kinda more aware than usual.And i have another thing which is ig getting my head. i was about to leave his place and i told him about my boundaries where i want him to ask to kiss me and he agreed to it ofc. so we kissed then he kissed me with...

yea. and he did. when he heard the snore he stopped and looked up and asked what i was doing

so i have a quick question. my boyfriend and i were doing some sexual stuff like he was sucking on my boobs. I consented to him doing so and i basically told him to. while he was i kinda closed my eyes and half way feel asleep. i dont believe i was unconscious but i was half asleep to the point of s...

Not really. Some times he does normal things and I just overthink or think too much into it sometimes.

i have a question. so im 15 about to be 16 and my boyfriend just turned 17. we do have a sexual relationship and have been together for close to a year. we both have really bad anxiety issues and have had them close to our whole lives. so 2 weeks ago i was mad at him and he ran and grabbed my arms (...