So...Final year(5 yrs) in uni and there happens to be girl that I only realized I've had a crush on since 2nd year. Got into an argument in class and didn't start speaking until our final year. Real fun she is and I think I might actually still like her. Only problem is due to a major illness(HbSC) ...

i tend to lash out at them when they offend me and even refuse to talk to them for a long period of time which most times damages our relationship since i never seem to be remorseful about my actions. As i said previously i tend to recede into my "shell" and shut out everyone around me, re...

I recently made a post asking how to make friends while being an introvert and the responses I got made me try harder at talking to people and opening up to them. Recently in a moment of reflection, I realized that I'd made it a habit to get close to people be friends with them but somehow lose cont...

Just checked my last post and it’s been a while since I posted anything on the forum….so this might be a lengthy one. 4th year of Med school and with one more year to go, everything seems blurred. Totally enjoyed my time here from being the soccer coach of my faculty and nearly winning the Provost c...

I'm not sure I'm ok just being friends. I'm always gonna feel like if anything happens, I might still have a chance.

It might seem possessive and selfish but being friends is always going to make me feel like something is going to happen and I might just be lucky enough.

Before she told she already had a boyfriend, I'd bought a book for her and totally intended to give her. Now that things are complex I'm not sure if I should give her the book since it's kinda like a romantic book: The Vow. Do I still give her the book without making it look like I want to go out wi...

I'm in a really tight fix and I don't really know what to do. It all started at the 1st semester where I started talking to a girl that I take a class with everyday. She seemed cool and it just felt nice always talking to her and she's always there to talk with. The problem is I'm not sure but I thi...

Thanks Heather. Like you said, adolescents are capable of having different forms of relationships and it just feels like since most of the time we most likely get lost in the euphoria of being "in love" and forget the obvious things thus making everyone think there's an ulterior motive to ...

Just want to get people's opinions on teenage relationships. It all started when I talked to a friend about being in a relationship and how I was rejected by a girl and he tells me I only wanted to date her just to have sex with her, an accusation that's totally wrong. Tried convincing him otherwise...

Thanks for the advice. Like you said the best thing to do is to close the open doors in my relationships. And I think I've done that, in the past week I've decided to cut ties with her. Hasn't been easy as I'm always tempted to call her and talk but I've realized it's better to let things be and for...

Just an update. I haven't talked to the girl in question for over a month and it's been odd as it's the longest period that I haven't had any form of communication with her. Tough and it feels weird. In the period however she hasn't said any word to me even as we see each other on Mondays. Of course...

Thanks for the advice and I might take your advice on the study dates.

I'm in my second year of college and I've always wondered how anyone manages to sustain a relationship while studying. I'm in Med School so the workload is huge and it just seems impossible to have time for anyone but myself. Not being selfish but trying to be there for someone and also making good ...

The Fault In Our Stars is an obvious choice for me. Yeah, it's a YA novel but in my opinion it just shows how much we can sacrifice for someone that's really important to us. Eleanor and Park is another perfect example. Loving someone and showing them that they're the best in your eyes even when the...

I never knew she was in the same class. It was surprising seeing her in class as I didn't expect her to be there. I asked her about it and she told me she's been having the class along with me and she's seen me in a couple of them but she didn't want to talk to me (like I said before we've now got a...

Like everyone's told me to I've been keeping my distance and focusing more on school but something strange happened yesterday. Turns out she's been coming to have lectures at Med school for her 2nd year and we're both in the same class. Been doing this for a month but seeing her made me realize that...

Thanks. Tried that already when she said no but it just seemed stupid while I was expecting her to call or text me she didn't and that was hurtful. I've tried talking to her without trying to get it into the conversation. We don't see each other often as I'm in Med school and she's in college and ge...

Thanks guys. Seems I've got to make a compromise and try to still be friends with her while hoping that someday she changes her mind. Ending our friendship is obvious not an option. Looks like the world's not a wish-granting factory and I've got to stick with the reality that she said no which as mu...

Thanks. Like you said, making light conversations is an option I've considered but even that seems to be forced with her and I'm at my wits end trying to understand her and her reasons for being so cold towards me. I've tried asking her about it but even that doesn't get me any further as she claims...

Everyone might have probably been faced with rejection one way or the other and mine's certainly not different. Finally summoned courage to tell the girl I like how I felt and I was swiftly rejected. Felt hurt as it took every ounce of courage in me to get myself to tell her about my feelings and to...

I've written this post in the Ask Us section but I just want to know if anyone's going through the same thing and what did they do about it. Here goes. I've got a female classmate in uni who I really like and we always hang out together with some friends. Recently told her how I felt. Haven't gotten...

I know she didn't have to tell me about it but I thought since we were friends she'd be open to tell me without keeping it a secret. I was holding back from telling her and not making myself look like a fool. Considering how hard it is to tell someone you like them, her leading me on and hoping I ha...

Finally got to talk to her after 2 weeks. Told her what I felt was happening between us and I expected to at least tell me where I stood with her but she still didn't come straight with me. Felt like she was messing with me just for laughs and I decided to walk away. Yesterday I got a call from anot...

It's the latter. I just want to tell her how I feel and regardless of the answer I get from her, I'm hoping it relieves me of the burden of not being able to forget about her. She's probably not going to give me the kind of answer I want but I just feel telling her would be a huge step in forgetting...

Had a friend from primary school who I really like as a friend and we would always hang out together and do our homework together. Everything started to change when we got into secondary school. For the first 3 years of secondary school she had different teenage crushes and during that period I disc...