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by Sara1234
Sun Jun 23, 2019 11:22 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Ex ruined my life and career
Replies: 5
Views: 2004

Re: Ex ruined my life and career

Yes. They have a way of forcing me to come home by emotionally blackmailing me with their health condition and family reputation. They think that I need to be punished for what I have done and losing my freedom to work in a city of my choice is that punishment. I am from India. I don't want to hurt ...
by Sara1234
Sun Jun 23, 2019 9:21 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Ex ruined my life and career
Replies: 5
Views: 2004

Re: Ex ruined my life and career

My immediate worry is my parents are emotionally blackmailing me to come back to my hometown. I want to continue working in the city I work and I have also suggested that I will change the company. But they are worried about my safety. Everyday I am getting scolded as well as emotionally blackmailed...
by Sara1234
Sun Jun 23, 2019 9:24 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Ex ruined my life and career
Replies: 5
Views: 2004

Ex ruined my life and career

Hi, I am in a very bad situation now. I was in a relationship with a man for 3 years and we broke up a year back. While in the relationship we had sex couple of times. We work in the same team. I had started seeing someone else which pissed him off. he started threatening me about telling my parents...
by Sara1234
Mon Jun 10, 2019 8:40 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Sexual assault
Replies: 5
Views: 2950

Re: Sexual assault

I can arrange for counseling. Should I see a gynaecologist too? He isn't contacting me anymore. Should I ask him to take an STD test?
by Sara1234
Mon Jun 10, 2019 8:08 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Sexual assault
Replies: 5
Views: 2950

Re: Sexual assault

I haven't seen a counselor since last month.
I have told his family members regarding his threats. They were very supportive of me and made sure he isn't disturbing me anymore. But the things that he told me is very disturbing and I don't know what to do about it.
by Sara1234
Mon Jun 10, 2019 5:27 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Sexual assault
Replies: 5
Views: 2950

Sexual assault

Hi all, I was in a relationship with a man for almost 3 years. In the course of the relationship we were intimate but never had penetrative sex. We broke up 5 months back for good. I started seeing someone else. My ex was recently diagnosed with Bipolar disorder. He is a very clingy type. As soon as...
by Sara1234
Tue May 28, 2019 10:25 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Body image problem
Replies: 1
Views: 1014

Body image problem

Hi, ;) I have been going out with a guy I met online for a week. We met only for one date. He was behaving very matured and decent during the date. We had good chemistry and had an intellectual conversation. I really liked him. But there was a little problem, This guy used to be fat, but recently ha...
by Sara1234
Fri Apr 26, 2019 9:04 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Drink spike
Replies: 16
Views: 4734

Re: Drink spike

I will try checking for other options. Thank you for the advice.
For this concern , I can be sure that nothing happened right?
by Sara1234
Fri Apr 26, 2019 8:49 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Drink spike
Replies: 16
Views: 4734

Re: Drink spike

I will try checking for other options. Thank you for the advice.
For this concern , I can be sure that nothing happened right?
by Sara1234
Fri Apr 26, 2019 8:40 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Drink spike
Replies: 16
Views: 4734

Re: Drink spike

"Things like gaps in your memory, time you can't account for, physical signs like soreness etc?"
I don't remember how long I was talking with that guy and the time I came home. But I remember coming home and going to bed. Is that something to worry about?
by Sara1234
Fri Apr 26, 2019 8:23 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Drink spike
Replies: 16
Views: 4734

Re: Drink spike

I have scares related to unsafe blood transfusion or used syringes being used on me again. I always ask the nurse to open the syringe in front of me.
by Sara1234
Fri Apr 26, 2019 8:15 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Drink spike
Replies: 16
Views: 4734

Re: Drink spike

I have had pregnancy scares few times.
by Sara1234
Fri Apr 26, 2019 7:55 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Drink spike
Replies: 16
Views: 4734

Re: Drink spike

It's true that I worry a lot. I talked to a mental health counselor for the concerns I had before. She assured that those were just common worries.
It's true that these worries are a common occurrence in my life. I don't even know what triggered this. I almost believe it has happened.
by Sara1234
Fri Apr 26, 2019 7:07 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Drink spike
Replies: 16
Views: 4734

Re: Drink spike

But is there any chance of this happening without any kind of recollection or symptoms?
by Sara1234
Fri Apr 26, 2019 5:51 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Drink spike
Replies: 16
Views: 4734

Re: Drink spike

"Things like gaps in your memory, time you can't account for, physical signs like soreness etc?"
I didn't have any of these signs. But I am still afraid if anything might have happened. :oops:
by Sara1234
Fri Apr 26, 2019 2:22 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Drink spike
Replies: 16
Views: 4734

Drink spike

Hi, I had been on a date with a guy I met online last night around 11 PM. I had ordered a drink(just orange juice non alcoholic). After having the drink, I didn't feel any symptoms except feeling sleepy maybe because it was late night. I continued talking to that guy and after an hour I went home. B...
by Sara1234
Wed Mar 20, 2019 11:39 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Scooter ride
Replies: 1
Views: 1406

Scooter ride

I had taken a pillion ride on his scooter with a guy whom I met online, we were dating for a while. He was kind of creepy. He started masturbating when I was riding with him. I stopped the ride midway and got down. But I have a fear like what if he had ejaculated on the seat of the scooter. I was si...
by Sara1234
Wed Nov 21, 2018 11:31 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Physical abuse
Replies: 6
Views: 2963

Re: Physical abuse

Yes. I need help to know how to leave. To make things worse, we are coworkers.
by Sara1234
Wed Nov 21, 2018 10:59 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Physical abuse
Replies: 6
Views: 2963

Re: Physical abuse

Hi Heather, Thank you so much for your insight. He thinks that I hurt him intentionally even after telling him repeatedly that I didn't. I have scratched him intentionally in the past which I am never proud of. But that was during some argument , he would raise a hand on me and I would try to dodge ...
by Sara1234
Wed Nov 21, 2018 9:07 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Physical abuse
Replies: 6
Views: 2963

Physical abuse

My boyfriend and I were running around playfully in a park in the evening yesterday. I was trying to snatch his wallet from him. When I did, he twisted my hand and in pain I pushed him away. My nails scratched him near the wrist. Nothing serious, but little blood. He got furious, and to my shock hit...
by Sara1234
Tue Oct 30, 2018 8:35 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Sleep rape
Replies: 10
Views: 8999

Re: Sleep rape

Mental loops is exactly what I am having regarding this issue. Am I suffering from any disorder? I can see a mental health care provider.
by Sara1234
Tue Oct 30, 2018 8:10 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Sleep rape
Replies: 10
Views: 8999

Re: Sleep rape

There are no straightforward logical evidences or solution for this issue. That makes me anxious and I go back to thinking of all the possibilities that it might have happened. I know it's rare to sleep through sex, but not impossible. I know it's unlikely that it might have happened if I don't have...
by Sara1234
Mon Oct 29, 2018 7:02 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Sleep rape
Replies: 10
Views: 8999

Re: Sleep rape

I just got an uncomfortable vibe. I don't have any logical reason to suspect. I have never had sex before so my thoughts are hyper around it....My boyfriend is usually like that because I tend to overthink a lot when it comes to things like safety and health. I just want to sleep in peace. Should I ...
by Sara1234
Mon Oct 29, 2018 1:16 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Sleep rape
Replies: 10
Views: 8999

Re: Sleep rape

There were no signs of physical impact. But I had emotional distress and the doubt that it would have happened. Because I was already feeling unsafe there and I am a heavy sleeper and also by reading on the internet that there is a possibility of someone sleeping through sex. Should I be concerned o...
by Sara1234
Sun Oct 28, 2018 9:28 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Sleep rape
Replies: 10
Views: 8999

Sleep rape

Hi, I am a 24 year old female.A month back, dozed off with my boyfriend in the living room. His roommates(three guys) were pretty drunk and were sleeping in their bedrooms. I am a heavy sleeper. I don't know why but I have a fear that one of his roommates would have raped me in my sleep. I don't hav...