Hi Nia-Yuki, I wish I knew!!! But specifically in the US, not even half of the states are required to provide sex education. And ONLY 19 states require that if sex education is required it be medically accurate. I'm happy to see that sexual health is important to you and you sought out resources! Wh...

HI Hypochodriac17, I think you have the right idea about not engaging in any type of sexual behavior until you can get a hold of your fears. I'm also glad to hear that your partner is supportive of your choice. You all should continue to discuss your discomfort and not engage in any sexual activity ...

Hey thomgoh, If you no longer wish to masturbate I think it is something you should take up with a leader you trust in your religious community. If talking about your personal sexual behaviors is too uncomfortable try having a conversation about sexuality in general. Before taking that step, I would...

Hi SlightConcern, First, it's great to hear you got tested! Way to be proactive!!! Not a silly question, it is a common myth. I do not think you are at risk for STIs based off the restroom experience you described. The organisms that lead to an STI can not survive long outside the body, especially o...