Right, but if mental arousal can be defined as wanting to engage in sexual activity at the moment, then that I am. In fact, when my boyfriend went away for a while, we did have certain conversations that made me flare up and feel aroused, but I dont know why it just didn't work out when he came back...

I think that I am mentally aroused as well before these encounters begin, but that falls off soon after we start and I get no reaction from myself :/.I dont think I was before masturbating though. Cant really drum up much excitement honestly about touching myself even if I fantasise. We haven't real...

hey, so I tried a lot of things, read up on the internet and whatnot but I still feel pretty lost as to why im not feeling any pleasure.... so ill explain it properly, my sexual experiences started about 2 years ago, when I grinded up on my boyfriend. this felt good, and I think I even had a small o...