Hi everyone. So I've been with my boyfriend for almost 3 months now and everything's been great, we are very much in love and we have great sex. However, sometimes, very rarely, after I orgasm I get this very strange feeling and begin to feel very detached from my boyfriend. Like, his presence might...

Hi Heather,

I agree with you! I've always told him our objective is not orgasming but just feeling good with each other and I have that. For the other part, thank you very much, you were very reassuring. We'll try!

Hey busybear, Well, the same thing happened to me too. It was akward, painful, and I just felt like there was something wrong with me - spoiler alert: there isn't. People's bodies are built in different ways. I, for example, get wet very easily but am very tight so it took me a long time to find ple...

So, I'm a 19 year old girl. I became sexually active in december of last year with my new boyfriend. We would do a lot of foreplay and he was able to make me orgasm both through oral sex and by using his hands. We then had sex and it was amazing. We both went back home for the holidays and spent a m...

Hello, and welcome to Scarleteen. I'm glad you found us. :) I'm sorry to hear, though, that you had such a painful and unpleasant first sexual experience... Thank you for your answer. Well, I gave him oral sex before and then he was going to give it back to me but we had tried foreplay before and h...

Hi everyone. So basically this is what happened: this year I had sex for the first time. We had only been going out for three weeks but I knew him from before, I trusted him and I had actually wanted to do it for a long time. However, it was awful. It was consensual so that's not a problem but he ju...