It's very possible that the low online rating and reviews are from people trying to tear down the clinic and convince people not to go. It's worth walking in and checking out the vibe for yourself - you can just walk out if you don't like it. It's worth trying! There are also various websites and nu...

Thanks for fixing that, Mo! My apologies. BiKinksterBoy, I found them through a basic Google search, so you can totally re-find them by searching for terms you're interested in. Did we answer your question?

They are little squishy balls - imagine like a cross between a bouncy ball and a stress ball - on a strap. You put the ball in your mouth, then the strap connects at the back. The strap keeps it from falling out, or from falling back into your throat and choking you. When the ball is in your mouth, ...

Here is a great article about asking your parents for help with your mental health: https://www.buzzfeed.com/annaborges/how-do-i-tell-my-parents-i-need-mental-health-help If you're a student, is there a counselor or health center you could talk to? Or a teacher you trust? Does your family belong to ...

You should be fine: http://www.livestrong.com/article/54521 ... h-control/

Is there someone you could talk to who could advise you - a lawyer, victim's advocate, officer, or another professional who is familiar with the case and could work with you to get the information you need and make the best decision for you?

Talking to friends and family or connecting to a support group or social worker at the hospital, as Heather suggested, are awesome ideas. Here are some more resources that might help: http://www.birthtraumaassociation.org.uk/help.htm http://www.solaceformothers.org/ http://pattch.org/ http://www.pos...

I really just want to know what to do next As for what to do next: keep reaching out for help. The list of things that you identify with include some serious mental health issues that need and deserve treatment and healing. You don't need to do this alone. Working through past trauma, identifying w...

If you're "quite sure you're gay," then...well...you're gay! You don't need anyone else's permission, validation, or approval for your identity. It is entirely possible to find people "cute" without wanting to date or even have sex with them! Attraction is a wide spectrum, and re...

This isn't exactly what you asked, but: if you continue to have issues with condoms slipping around, try other brands, sizes, and styles of condoms. It took me and my partners a really long time into our sexually active lives before we realized that all penises are not the same (even though all the ...

First off, if your boyfriend lied to you about something that was important to you and violated your trust, that's a big relationship red flag. I think it's worth it to talk to your boyfriend about why he gave you wrong information and how that made you feel. You deserve to be in a relationship wher...

It's normal and nothing to worry about - but if it bothers you, you can reduce it by trimming your pubic hair a bit. Use small grooming or safety scissors and always point the sharp bits away from your bits.

There is nothing about gender roles that I like - to me, something being a "gender role" implies that it is a requirement or somehow forced on me. Many things that I like to do on my own, I would resent being made or expected to do by someone else. I am a cis woman, so I like to think of i...

It sounds like you have a good idea of what you like and what your body can do - my suggestion is to find erotica and/or porn that includes things related to this fetish and figure out what you really like, identify your fantasy, then work with a partner or on your own to find ways to safely live it...

general tips to avoid UTIs: -Pee after sex -Stay hydrated! -Some people find that cranberry pills/juice help -Keep your immune system healthy in general (manage sleep, diet, stress, etc.) -Wear clean, breathable underwear -Keep sex as clean and safe as possible - use lube that works well with your b...

As for having a hard time naming your feelings, if you have a smartphone there are lots of apps that can help. I know it can sound silly to use an app for help with emotional regulation, but they have really helped me. Different things work for different people, so here's a link dump to look through...

Then it sounds like perhaps you need to take steps to keep certain information safe from your grandmother. It sucks when we can't be open and honest with people in our lives, but if people have demonstrated that they are going to introduce anxiety, shame, or fear-mongering into our lives, or spread ...

This is a (relatively) common kink; it is not my thing but I encounter it often enough in erotica about other things I'm into. (If you don't already, check literotica dot com for tags relevant to what you're into; you can find a lot there! Plus, check this wiki page: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Om...

Solo bondage is VERY dangerous - do not do it! Consider instead masturbating while reading an erotic story about bondage or looking at bondage porn. You can simulate the sensation of having something to struggle against by wrapping yourself up in a blanket, wearing tight clothing or doing something ...

As in most things, at least part of the solution is communication! If you like the feeling of something to struggle against, that may take some strategizing between you and your partner. Most people - rightfully! - take struggling on their partners part as a signal to pull back. "Resistance pla...

Oooh friend I gotta send you a bunch of links once I'm off mobile. For now: 1.) safety is the priority! Using things for bondage that aren't intended for bondage can be dangerous, so when in doubt be conservative and patient (even when it's annoying)! Don't take shortcuts - cuffs or rope not designe...

First off, I can never seem to talk to him. I'm an incredibly shy individual, I can barely look him in the eye, let alone hold a conversation with him, it makes me feel so inadequate. You deserve to be with someone who you enjoy being around, not someone who makes you feel inadequate. Don't make th...

When you say "it stinks" - do you mean just that you don't like it, or that it literally smells? The pubic area should not have a bad smell no matter how long your pubic hair is, and shaving is not a solution to whatever is causing it to smell. If you're worried about odor in that area, ta...

That sounds really intense - hallucinations, vomiting, etc. - and should be taken seriously as a medical condition. Unfortunately, it is REALLY hard for people who menstruate to get symptoms like that taken seriously by most doctors - we get told to take an Advil and have a lie down. My recommendati...

Hi! I've been in poly/open relationships for going on 10 years now, so this is totally my wheelhouse. 100% seconded on trying different types of condoms and more lube! As for "rules" - I've found that rules work best when they are more abstract and focus on feelings rather than behaviors. ...