Hello! Sorry, I haven’t been on in a while!! I gave him some space for a while, but he said that’s not what he needed. We’re doing great and are still friends and hang out. I actually introduced him to a friend of mine not long after and he asked her out a few days ago :) Mainly the reason I felt ba...

So as you know, I’ve had a girlfriend for a while now. But I have this really good guy friend. Earlier today, he asked me if I’d like to go out with him sometime, like to Starbucks or something...as a date. I told him that I’m in a relationship. (I have been keeping it a secret from everyone because...

I’m just curious about what kinds of relationship stuff you do. I know it’s not like there’s anything you can do in a guy/girl relationship that you can NOT do in a girl/girl relationship, but I’m just curious. We haven’t really been out in public together, but I would like to do something.

So my relationship with my girlfriend is going amazing! I feel a lot closer to her than I did when I was in a relationship with a guy. When it comes to sex, she’s usually the dominant one and I do like it that way, but I would like to change it up and try being the dominant one. I was wondering if I...

Yeah that makes sense

So you may have seen a post from me recently about my new relationship (with a girl). We've had sex a few times now and I've loved. More than I ever did when I did it with my boyfriend. Here's where I'm a little confused. I always considered myself bisexual. But would the fact that my relationship (...

It was amazing

We did it! Thanks so much for the help!

I do actually have one more question. Probably a stupid one. If it’s not something that’s okay to ask here, I apologize. But I mentioned to her that I’ve had trouble with orgasms in the past. Along the lines of I’ve never had one. Never even have any luck giving myself one. She said we could try sci...

I think I’m okay for now, thanks Would it be alright if I follow up after we do it?

Yeah, I can definitely give that a shot. She keeps telling me I have nothing to worry about, from what she can see so far, and she says she knows she’ll same thing when she sees me naked. That kind of helps too. She’s being really supportive

Oh definitely that I feel like I’ll compare my body to hers. Comparing is something I do a lot :/

One other thing is that we’ve never seen each other naked yet. I’ve always been self conscious. But I don’t want that to stop anything. She’s been very supportive of me since she used to be the same way. I’m still nervous though. She’s in a bit better shape than I am

Oh okay! Haha I haven’t gotten a chance to read through it yet. I’m multitasking with homework right now lol

By taking the lead, I’m thinking more along the lines of being the one to initiate. But I’d also like to actually DO more during sex. When I was with my boyfriend, I was more of the just lay back and let him do his thing. But I want to be more of a giver with my girlfriend now. I want to branch myse...

Thanks! I’ll take a look at that link. When it comes to sex in the last relationship, I wouldn’t say that it was from a lack of communication. I said I consider myself bi, but I think I’m more interested in girls than guys. I still have a slight interest in guys, but my interest in girls is much mor...

It’s been a while since I’ve been on here. But I have a question. I had a boyfriend, previously. Whenever we had sex...it was...well just okay. The relationship with the guy ended because he had to move, and I couldn’t handle long distance (had bad experience with that in the past). Anyway, I consid...

I posted a few weeks ago about my best guy friend and my boyfriend meeting. My best friend had been pretty insistent on it after finding out that my boyfriend and I have been sleeping together. (I later found out that my best friend has feelings for me). So here's a little follow up. Since then, he ...

I talked to him about it. Told him I don't want him to distance himself, but that if he has to, I understand. He says he won't let this get in the way of us staying friends, and actually suggested we run to Starbucks (like we always do) and maybe start up a volleyball game at the park with some of o...

I don't even know, to be honest I really feel bad about hurting him now that I know where he's coming from. He said he'd keep his distance because he doesn't want to cause problems. But I don't want him to drift away from me. He's my best friend and I don't know what I'd do without him. :'(

He told me he has feelings for me...

The two of them meeting went okay. I just finished talking to my best friend. It took a turn I wasn't really expecting. I don't know what to do now

Thanks! I do have one last question for now. Is there a right or wrong way to bring it up? I just don't really know what to say

My boyfriend and I are actually leaving soon to meet him. Going out for a light dinner. If I were worried that my he was going to be mean or something, I definitely would've postponed. I trust that they'll both be decent to each other. I'd like to talk to him about it after. I have a feeling it migh...

I would like to talk to him about it, yes. He's never done anything to hurt my feelings, and I feel like I hurt his. And I never really planned on having sex at the times it's happened, it's just that it ended up happening. Heat of the moment. Like I said, I would like to talk to him about it. I jus...