I've never tried lube specifically for bedroom play before, hmm! We do play quite a bit, I just wish I could improve all that playing. Vibrators are out of the question atm, as I don't want to buy anything solid until we get our own place, if we ever do. If I could, I probably would've been Bad Drag...

Thanks, Johanna! No, we have not tried flavoured condoms. I don't have access to... "sexy" items, but he does. I'll ask him what he thinks about trying them. Not sure I'd enjoy them anyway though... that latex feel is really not my thing xD Still! Experience! We haven't rushed into anythin...

Thanks for the quick reply, guys :) We've tried using condom during oral sex. The condom feels just as bad. Maybe even worse due to that latex texture and smell. At least body fluids smell more natural than condoms. Using my hand on a condom is easier, but I often don't like my own hands after that!...

I haven't seen this asked before and I've been itching for some advice for quite a while now. Everytime my bf visits, we will have a few sessions in the bedroom. Always foreplay only though (because I'm not ready!) and every single time, I'd hesitate giving him oral or touching him at all. Over the ...

I doubt it would sabotage your relationship with your mum unless you do something extremely drastic. Your mum is your mum and will always strive to wanna be with you and be there for you. Good luck

Hi Millymei! Welcome to Scarleteen! I'm sure a volunteer will come along to give you advice, but I just wanted to share my own experiences. Perhaps it will help you. Parents are quite strange. I come from a paranoid family with a miserly father, complete with the usual Asian stereotypes. So of cours...

Spirited Away had a huge impact on me. There was nothing adult in it, yet, the meanings and emotions are helluva deep. Because it's a cartoon, many may feel like it's just a childish puppy love thing going on, but that's not what was portrayed to me. Kohaku cared so much for a tiny human girl that i...

My parents have a thing about donating clothes. I don't know why and I've given up asking. I still have all my baby clothes, just sitting around, gathering dust and turning yellow. It's... really odd to me as a younger generation, but according to them, it's something to do with spending money on th...

I've had 2 relationships, and both of them are LDRs. So I'd like to share some stuff that I had wondered about previously. This is gonna be really long though! First off: No, it doesn't really get easier. You want an LDR to last, you have to work for it, both partners (or more). This is the part whe...

On the bright side, it's not my wallet! xD On the down side, it's my dad's... Which... ehem, not a very good thing either... I honestly don't mind, if I start needing to buy new stuff when the current ones are getting really worn anyway. It's when my clothes are still new-ish and could last for anot...

I honestly no longer know if it's an addiction or compulsion. I know it is repeated often enough to be considered a habit. I'm just saying that from what I've read, others have treated it as an addiction. I don't know if it would ruin my life, though there have been many stories about it ruining oth...

I can see modifying tshirts and those haven't been much of a problem anyway. It's the bras I'm worried about. Jeans aren't very easy to modify either D:

So just need to wait another few more years... Any tips on saving money/clothes? >.<

Ah, unfortunately, I'm in a timezone where your live chats are online when I'm asleep. I have tried several times, keeping awake to catch your live chat, but by 1am (for me, 10am for PST), I'm way too drowsy to say much more than "Hi". What advices would you give though, to improve and wor...

I have a habit I'd like to change, but I'm not sure I want to talk about it publicly... I don't really trust my doctor or anyone around me. Never told anyone about it before, but apparently, it's a pretty common addiction. I really really need to talk to someone about it though, and I really do need...

Thanks for the reply, Karyn. I'm not concerned about it. I'm just lost as to how to feel about it. xD To be pleased or to be annoyed? I mean, this has nothing to do with body image or trying to keep his eyes on me. I don't care if he looks at other women, I'd look too! What I AM worried about is whe...

Hey everyone! It's been a while since I last had questions that couldn't be answered with Google-Fu. I hope you guys can help me. Does attraction to another person (significant other, etc) cause the body to grow more than thought possible, especially the "secondary sex characteristics" as ...

This thread needs to be paraded around! xD I was The Confused One at the old forum.