hi! we mentioned this in a previous post but yesterday we successfully masturbated (atleast i think, still not 100% sure bc we’re very new to this) but ever since then we’ve been getting this kind of tingly/tickley feeling in our vulva coupled with some slight throbbing (no pain or anything). i just...

thank you!! also thats good to know, i was kinda confused because i didn’t really expect my clitoris to feel like how it did when i touched it judging by the anatomical diagrams that i’ve seen. i kinda more expected it to feel more distinct if that makes sense, like a larger, more firm lump/bump or ...

aa so sorry for the late response! at this moment there’s nothing else i need much help with, although i’ll probably ask more questions in the future. thank you

hi!! so pls lmk if this level of detail isn’t allowed but i just kinda wanted to word vomit about something that happened today. if you read our other messages you probably know that we’ve been struggling with the topic of masturbation and our relationship with our body (specifically as a system tha...

thank you so much!! i’ll definitely let you know if anything else comes up

ok thank you!!

hi! i joined a few days ago and over those few days we’ve thought of lots of questions/concerns we have. so much that it would probably be too much for a message board here and i think the kind of back and fourth communication with only staff where i can just ask questions one at a time via one of t...

Hi Carly! thank you for the response! honestly you really nailed the head in the coffin in that first part bc that’s pretty much exactly how i feel! i do have a decent amount of concerns about masturbation still but its tricky bc i don’t really know how to go about getting help for those concerns if...

Hello! as said in previous message boards im ace, sex repulsed but have an interest in masturbation for myself (you can read said message for more elaboration). for further context/information i am part of a plural system (which for those who dont know, is when there are multiple parts/people/souls ...

that does make me feel a bit better, thanks!!

mhm!!

thank you so much. this was all very affirming and comforting to hear. i appreciate it so much :) also yeah masturbation is the one form of sex im not repulsed by, atleast for myself, but i still get uncomfy when others talk about their sex lives including masturbation, would that make me a hypocrit...

hi! thank you for the response! i read the articles you provided and they definitely helped! the only problem is that i dont have condoms and i wouldn’t be able to ask for them so as it stands rn the diy sex toys are no go unfortunately. as for the question regarding me feeling shame, if im being ho...

hi! i guess for some background info, im 14 and asexual. i’ve never really felt much sexual attraction and i’ve never really had interest in sex with a partner, but i still get horny (for lack of a better term) and i’ve been trying to start masturbating and feeling more comfortable doing so after ye...