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- Tue May 14, 2024 9:44 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: How do I accept my unusual preferences?
- Replies: 10
- Views: 576
Re: How do I accept my unusual preferences?
Fingers crossed you find something you will like there!
- Mon May 13, 2024 11:55 am
- Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
- Topic: Attracted to my gay friend as a transmasc
- Replies: 21
- Views: 818
Re: Attracted to my gay friend as a transmasc
Hi trixieandtoast, I hope it’s okay that I’m stepping in here. I’m so sorry this didn’t go as planned! I understand not wanting to bother him when he might have a lot of work but I think there wouldn’t be anything wrong with sending him the voice note if you want to. After all, he said you can and i...
- Mon May 13, 2024 10:39 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: How do I accept my unusual preferences?
- Replies: 10
- Views: 576
Re: How do I accept my unusual preferences?
Hi there Jay27, I’ll let the rest of the team know about this so they can pitch in with their own ideas, but in the meantime here are a few of mine. As for online spaces, if you are looking for a content mostly by and for queer women, this online magazine might be a great place to start (and you wil...
- Wed May 01, 2024 11:30 am
- Forum: Sexual Identity
- Topic: Just discovered I’m asexual at 25
- Replies: 4
- Views: 1814
Re: Just discovered I’m asexual at 25
Hi spottedowl, it’s so great to hear you are feeling better about your sexuality and are learning how to approach it on your own terms despite the possible pressure from other people, that’s so amazing and important for you to know <3 As for some resources I think you can find a few great ones throu...
- Wed May 01, 2024 11:02 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: Clarification on Potential Risks and Types of Contact
- Replies: 11
- Views: 3714
Re: Clarification on Potential Risks and Types of Contact
I’m glad you found the article helpful! You are right, even if you take out the temperature as a factor, there are still other reasons that we talked about in the previous posts why the situation doesn’t pose a pregnancy risk. It sounds like this is causing you quite a lot of stress, if you would li...
- Wed May 01, 2024 10:56 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: school's hard
- Replies: 1
- Views: 423
Re: school's hard
Hi there, that sounds like a big choice to make and I can definitely see why it can seem so daunting! Something that has really helped me when facing such choices was realizing that they are often less final than they might seem (in this case for reasons like that some schools allow students to chan...
- Wed May 01, 2024 10:28 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: Just broken up, help!
- Replies: 7
- Views: 628
Re: Just broken up, help!
Hi there Liore and welcome to the boards! I’m so sorry to hear that, breakups can be so hard and things like it being your first one or how unexpected it was for you can make it even harder. There is a lot we can talk about and I think this article covers most of it (including some practical tips ho...
- Fri Apr 26, 2024 1:57 am
- Forum: Sex & Sexuality
- Topic: why do I only feel pleasure when I feel the need to pee?
- Replies: 1
- Views: 2981
Re: why do I only feel pleasure when I feel the need to pee?
Hi there and welcome to the boards! Increase in pleasure with a full bladder it actually something quite a lot of people experience and it makes a lot of sense that they do because when the bladder fills it expands and presses on the tissues around it which is also where the sensitive internal parts...
- Fri Apr 26, 2024 1:03 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: Relationship
- Replies: 44
- Views: 26044
Re: Relationship
Hi Skybushhh, I think it’s really important to keep in mind the the observation that this is coming from your own worries and potentially anxiety rather than from what other people are actually thinking. Because if we are doing something wrong that affects other people they usually let us know about...
- Mon Apr 22, 2024 1:23 pm
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: About sexual noises...
- Replies: 14
- Views: 3724
Re: About sexual noises...
Hi MizdaCFS! I would like to approach this from a bit different angle by asking you first: what would you want that information about your partner for? If the answer is to make sure they don’t feel obliged to put on some show for you than it’s great that you want to make your partner feel comfortabl...
- Tue Apr 16, 2024 12:23 pm
- Forum: Sex & Sexuality
- Topic: how do i ask my parents for a stroker?
- Replies: 10
- Views: 3759
Re: how do i ask my parents for a stroker?
You are welcome! This is again something where there isn’t one specific right thing to say, and I think your idea is great. It lets them know it will be a sensitive conversation so they can prepare for that and saying it might feel weird out loud to the other person often help us deal with the awkwa...
- Tue Apr 16, 2024 11:52 am
- Forum: Sex & Sexuality
- Topic: how do i ask my parents for a stroker?
- Replies: 10
- Views: 3759
Re: how do i ask my parents for a stroker?
I think your example what to say from your previous posts is a good one! If you are not sure if they have the time/capacity to talk with you at the moment you can start by asking them about that and then you can just tell them something along the lines "I would like to have this toy (you can in...
- Tue Apr 16, 2024 10:59 am
- Forum: Sex & Sexuality
- Topic: how do i ask my parents for a stroker?
- Replies: 10
- Views: 3759
Re: how do i ask my parents for a stroker?
I totally get these worries! Things to consider could be if they have reacted badly in other situations and if yes, then what "badly" meant in those situation and lastly, if it were to go as badly as in one of these situations if that risk is a one you would be willing to take. How does th...
- Tue Apr 16, 2024 10:04 am
- Forum: Sex & Sexuality
- Topic: how do i ask my parents for a stroker?
- Replies: 10
- Views: 3759
Re: how do i ask my parents for a stroker?
Hi there SillyMcGoof_ , it’s nice to see you again! I agree that it might feel awkward to talk about this, after all even without the added taboo that’s placed of anything related to sex or sexuality by the society this is still your first time having this conversation, and it might be your parents’...
- Mon Apr 15, 2024 11:04 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: questions about sperm
- Replies: 8
- Views: 3269
Re: questions about sperm
That’s exactly it!
- Mon Apr 15, 2024 10:08 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: questions about sperm
- Replies: 8
- Views: 3269
Re: questions about sperm
Hi there, that’s pretty much what happens. But pressure isn’t the only thing that kills sperm cells, like Willa mentioned, they are very fragile and need specific conditions to survive. So other mechanisms that destroy them when being left on some surface can be drying of the fluids composing semen ...
- Thu Apr 11, 2024 12:54 pm
- Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
- Topic: Tight feeling in chest while masturbating?
- Replies: 7
- Views: 3899
Re: Tight feeling in chest while masturbating?
Hi there Grayyyson,
Sam has already responded to your previous answer to her question, can you see her reply?
Sam has already responded to your previous answer to her question, can you see her reply?
- Tue Apr 09, 2024 10:33 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: 20 year old female, issues with masturbating and finishing for months
- Replies: 21
- Views: 17826
Re: 20 year old female, issues with masturbating and finishing for months
Hi there, I hope it’s okay that I’m stepping in here. I really understand the need to have some kind of a plan for the possibility this doesn’t help. I think your next steps will mostly depend on what you learn by not masturbating for some time - if the throbbing feeling changes and if so than if fo...
- Tue Apr 02, 2024 11:38 am
- Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
- Topic: A puzzled ace
- Replies: 1
- Views: 1820
Re: A puzzled ace
Hi there and welcome to the boards! Don’t worry, your post is perfectly okay! As for your question, when you talk about arousal do you mean just physical arousal (things like penis getting hard or vagina lubricated), mental one (wanting to masturbate, feeling excited), or both? It will vary a lot fr...
- Mon Apr 01, 2024 2:31 pm
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: SEXUAL SHAME IS AFFECTING MY RELATIONSHIPS
- Replies: 5
- Views: 1339
Re: SEXUAL SHAME IS AFFECTING MY RELATIONSHIPS
Hi jumbomumbo, you are right that it’s more often a long process rather than just one time revelation that would make the shame magically disappear. It might take some time to even learn what approaches and resources when are the most helpful for you and even then the feelings might still unexpected...
- Mon Apr 01, 2024 12:47 pm
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: Question on Polyam and Dysphoria Progressively Getting Worse
- Replies: 13
- Views: 7179
Re: Question on Polyam and Dysphoria Progressively Getting Worse
Hi Nat, we can sure talk about both of these! Let’s start with talking about the dysphoria more first and if you have any questions about polyamory feel free to ask them and we will move onto them, okay? I noticed you mentioned the dysphoria stems from not feeling pretty enough so I would like ask i...
- Mon Apr 01, 2024 12:25 pm
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: SEXUAL SHAME IS AFFECTING MY RELATIONSHIPS
- Replies: 5
- Views: 1339
Re: SEXUAL SHAME IS AFFECTING MY RELATIONSHIPS
Hi there and welcome to the boards! I’m sorry people in your life made you feel like this, living with shame around sex and relationships can be really hard, especially when it comes from people close to you like your family. I’m more than happy to talk about this with you more but first I would lik...
Re: Period
Hi there Ms. Candy! Before anything else, there is a discrepancy between the age you stated in your profile and in your post, could you please clarify which one is right? As for your questions, I’m sorry you are experiencing this. Having periods come that often and are so painful for what seems to b...
- Tue Mar 26, 2024 2:29 pm
- Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
- Topic: I think I might be gay
- Replies: 17
- Views: 5846
Re: I think I might be gay
I’m sorry you are feeling worried about that, that can be really difficult. Given all you have shared with us so far, I would say that your experiences sounds like one of the ways people can experience attraction. How does hearing that make you feel? Would you like some media or resources recommenda...
- Tue Mar 26, 2024 2:17 pm
- Forum: Sex & Sexuality
- Topic: Not Feeling Anything When Masturbating
- Replies: 5
- Views: 6077
Re: Not Feeling Anything When Masturbating
Congratulations on everything, that’s all so great to hear!
That sounds like a really good approach, I’ll be hoping you will find it helpful. Let us know if there is anything else around this or something else we can help you with!
That sounds like a really good approach, I’ll be hoping you will find it helpful. Let us know if there is anything else around this or something else we can help you with!