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- Fri Mar 29, 2024 2:37 am
- Forum: Et Cetera
- Topic: My dad out of the blue aggresively cares about what i wear.
- Replies: 1
- Views: 2144
Re: My dad out of the blue aggresively cares about what i wear.
Hi Nemo101, welcome to the boards I'm so sorry you have to deal with this! You're not in the wrong- your father's behavior was controlling and disrespectful. It seems like he is somehow getting offended by the appearance of normal body parts, like a back or a knee. Your father may have different aes...
- Fri Mar 29, 2024 2:36 am
- Forum: Relationships
- Topic: wanting a relationship
- Replies: 1
- Views: 2054
Re: wanting a relationship
Hi Nemo101! Yes, confidence is in fact, key. But I understand how it might be difficult to build up the kind of self-assurance you need to ask someone out. That can take time, and it is something many people struggle with. So if no one has asked you out, that doesn't mean you aren't attractive enoug...
- Fri Mar 29, 2024 2:27 am
- Forum: Pregnancy and Parenting
- Topic: Possible pregnancy?
- Replies: 5
- Views: 7253
Re: Possible pregnancy?
Hi Trvllver! While nausea is a notable symptom of being pregnant, pregnancy isn't the only or even the most common cause of feeling nauseous. The hook effect is very uncommon, so it is unlikely that it could be causing false negative test results. Also, as Sam said, it looks like you used multiple m...
- Sun Mar 24, 2024 4:10 am
- Forum: Sex & Sexuality
- Topic: Men getting hard ?
- Replies: 12
- Views: 5322
Re: Men getting hard ?
Take your time! I'm leaving now, but the next person on shift will get to you.
- Sun Mar 24, 2024 4:08 am
- Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
- Topic: Sexting????? Idk I’m just paranoid.
- Replies: 4
- Views: 8479
Re: Sexting????? Idk I’m just paranoid.
Hi Ginger, Those are understandable fears. Since we can't control everything, there is always a chance that someone we trust could hurt us. But since you have reasons to believe this person is who they say they are, I think it is fair for you to trust your judgment here. Plenty of people develop goo...
- Sun Mar 24, 2024 3:50 am
- Forum: Gender
- Topic: Understanding pronouns is hard
- Replies: 4
- Views: 6254
Re: Understanding pronouns is hard
Hi Mika.m! This is a great question. More can be said about this, but I think that people from cultures with gendered pronouns are reminded of how people see their gender quite often, through the pronouns that people use for them. They have to experiment to find language that is comfortable for them...
- Sun Mar 24, 2024 3:42 am
- Forum: Sex & Sexuality
- Topic: Men getting hard ?
- Replies: 12
- Views: 5322
Re: Men getting hard ?
Hi chelsealewis, Ah, I understand why you would want more perspectives- that would be my first instinct too. Would you like to tell us more about this relationship? Maybe we can untangle the behavior that was making you confused. It is okay if you're not confident now. It can take a lot of time, exp...
- Sun Mar 24, 2024 3:35 am
- Forum: Sex & Sexuality
- Topic: Feeling insecure about attractiveness
- Replies: 7
- Views: 4860
Re: Feeling insecure about attractiveness
Hi there, Asking Queries! Don't worry, you can talk about dysphoria. Thanks for the content warning though, it may help someone who needs it. I understand how it would be hard to fight these sorts of thoughts if you don't feel like you have any actual evidence that people are attracted to you. You k...
- Sun Mar 24, 2024 3:23 am
- Forum: Relationships
- Topic: Not sure if it’s a date
- Replies: 4
- Views: 4470
Re: Not sure if it’s a date
Hi Terence,
I think you could ask. It is mature to make sure you're both on the same page and that there are no misunderstandings.
It might be a good idea to think about your feelings on this subject. Do you want this to be a date, or would you prefer to go as friends?
I think you could ask. It is mature to make sure you're both on the same page and that there are no misunderstandings.
It might be a good idea to think about your feelings on this subject. Do you want this to be a date, or would you prefer to go as friends?
- Sun Mar 24, 2024 3:14 am
- Forum: Sex & Sexuality
- Topic: Men getting hard ?
- Replies: 12
- Views: 5322
Re: Men getting hard ?
Hi Chelsealewis, welcome to the boards! I am not a straight boy, but maybe I could offer you some advice. If five boys answered your question, you would only have the answers of five individual boys. You might find some patterns, but you wouldn't be able to draw very good conclusions about all boys....
- Sun Mar 24, 2024 3:06 am
- Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
- Topic: Dealing with afterglow
- Replies: 1
- Views: 3542
Re: Dealing with afterglow
Hi there, name_pending, Oh no- it is good that you have an explanation and that you can feel satisfied now, but I'm sorry your depression was really bad! If you want that afterglow to go away sooner, maybe you could try switching to another activity- you could take a cool bath, exercise, or play a g...
- Sun Mar 24, 2024 3:05 am
- Forum: Sex, Culture and Politics
- Topic: Morality police is confusing
- Replies: 4
- Views: 4056
Re: Morality police is confusing
Hi there, Mika.m You're right, the morality police don't just hurt women- they hurt anyone who opposes their power or doesn't want to live under their strict moral code. That includes men and trans people. When people discuss the problems with the police, I think they focus on women for two reasons:...
- Sun Mar 24, 2024 3:04 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: Feeling being rude and offensive
- Replies: 7
- Views: 3088
Re: Feeling being rude and offensive
Hi Mika.m, It is not bad or immoral to see someone and notice a physical feature that you like. But when we're in public, it is important to make sure we're not creating significant discomfort for other people. For example, it would be a little rude to stare, because it might make her feel self-cons...
- Sun Mar 24, 2024 3:00 am
- Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
- Topic: Is double vaginal penetration even possible?
- Replies: 2
- Views: 8442
Re: Is double vaginal penetration even possible?
Hi Coreylore, welcome to the boards! Double vaginal penetration is biologically possible, but it is not for everyone, and requires a great deal of patience and preparation to do without pain. There are a couple of things that impact how difficult double penetration is, including the size of the obje...
- Sat Mar 23, 2024 2:51 am
- Forum: Sex & Sexuality
- Topic: I am scared of having sex with my girlfriend but I really want to!
- Replies: 2
- Views: 2698
Re: I am scared of having sex with my girlfriend but I really want to!
Hi there, Unr3alun3arth! Oof, these types of anxieties can be such strange creatures. You know that you're ready, you have a partner that you care about, it doesn't seem like she is putting pressure on you, and you know that you can get better with practice. Yet, you're worried. You value your relat...
- Fri Mar 22, 2024 1:36 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: Why can’t I orgasm?
- Replies: 9
- Views: 2985
Re: Why can’t I orgasm?
Hi there, Itsmemimsey
Your description doesn't sound concerning... it could be vaginal lubrication. Do you think that sounds right?
Your description doesn't sound concerning... it could be vaginal lubrication. Do you think that sounds right?
- Fri Mar 22, 2024 1:35 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: How to find partner as an introvert and shy
- Replies: 9
- Views: 2520
Re: How to find partner as an introvert and shy
Hi there, Mika.m Of the hobbies that you've mentioned, I think storytelling and philosophy might be most helpful for meeting other people. Maybe you could attend lectures or a writing club. If you enjoy reading as well, you could join a book club. I think you can look for offline and online options ...
- Sat Mar 16, 2024 10:38 pm
- Forum: Sexual Identity
- Topic: How to understand?
- Replies: 3
- Views: 2120
Re: How to understand?
Hi there, PomPom- welcome to the boards! Don't worry about any mistakes, I can understand you just fine. I can see that you're really worried about this. Before I try to address your concerns about attraction, I want to assure you of something: you can take as long as you need to figure out your sex...
- Sat Mar 16, 2024 10:24 pm
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: 20 year old female, issues with masturbating and finishing for months
- Replies: 21
- Views: 19606
Re: 20 year old female, issues with masturbating and finishing for months
Hi there, PleaseHelpASAP All of this does seem so frustrating- I understand why you want that good feeling to last a little longer, and I'm sorry you're having difficulties. You've talked about trying clitoral stimulation and fingering, but have you also tried touching other parts of your body? Plea...
- Sat Mar 16, 2024 2:23 am
- Forum: Sex & Sexuality
- Topic: How do I let go of intense shame surrounding my kinks?
- Replies: 1
- Views: 8295
Re: How do I let go of intense shame surrounding my kinks?
Hi there, Hi I understand why you're worried about this, but I don't think that you are a gross person and I don't think it is particularly strange that you searched for such scenes. You said it yourself: you were looking for CBT and castratrix porn, but you didn't know how to find it. In the course...
- Sat Mar 16, 2024 12:02 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: Sexual discussion
- Replies: 3
- Views: 2046
Re: Sexual discussion
Hi there, Dollybeats- welcome to the boards!
Would you tell us a bit more about what you feel when you try to finger yourself? Do you notice any pain or tightness? How is it different from when your boyfriend fingers you?
Would you tell us a bit more about what you feel when you try to finger yourself? Do you notice any pain or tightness? How is it different from when your boyfriend fingers you?
- Fri Mar 15, 2024 1:57 am
- Forum: Sex & Sexuality
- Topic: Experimenting With Butt Plugs
- Replies: 2
- Views: 2134
Re: Experimenting With Butt Plugs
Hi there, CatHaru26 Oof, I understand how that would be a bummer! I think you're doing the right thing by focusing on going slow and using lots of lube. You may just need some more time to get used to these new sensations. On that note, I'm wondering if there is anything about the sensations from th...
- Sun Mar 10, 2024 2:48 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: I think I am omnisexual. Ways to figure out your Sexuality without being in a Relationship?
- Replies: 11
- Views: 5732
Re: I think I am omnisexual. Ways to figure out your Sexuality without being in a Relationship?
Hi Nat! You know, there is nothing wrong with changing the words you use to describe your orientation or coming out multiple times. You can change the labels you use as many times as you want in your life. You don't have any obligation to find one word and stick to it. You can also use more than one...
- Sun Mar 10, 2024 2:21 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: The way my friend talks about sex makes me uncomfortable. How do I bring this up?
- Replies: 3
- Views: 1345
Re: The way my friend talks about sex makes me uncomfortable. How do I bring this up?
Hi there, Jay27 Oof, I understand how that would feel so invalidating- PIV intercourse definitely isn't the only real sex. It is possible that your friend has some attachment to the idea of being a virgin that is keeping her from unpacking the implications of her words or properly considering how th...
- Sat Mar 09, 2024 1:58 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: Squirting??
- Replies: 9
- Views: 2183
Re: Squirting??
Hi Viennakuko, I want to gently challenge this idea you have about the 'real thing'. Orgasms have a lot of great publicity, so I understand why you would want to experience strong ones. But they are not necessarily the most important part of sex- after all, they only last for a few seconds. The sati...