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If you live in abuse, or the person in your life who is abusive checks your phone or computer, be sure after you read pages like these to clear your history. It's safest for you that anyone abusing you does not know you are reading up on abuse or planning to leave. To click out of this page to...

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  • Heather Corinna
  • Jacob Mirzaian
  • Sam Wall
  • Stephanie
  • Redskies

If you're in an abusive relationship, to make abuse stop you've got to get away and stay away. Here's help to do that safely, and to be as safe as you can before leaving.

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  • Sam Wall

Oh, pubic hair. One of those subjects that, when brought up, generally kick-starts a furious debate about which option (shaved, trimmed, left alone) is the most attractive, the most empowered, the most hygienic, etc. And, depending on how much you follow this debate, you may end up feeling like no...

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  • Jenna Gaarde

Many of us have been there before: feeling stuck in our sexual relationships and wanting to try new things, while feeling unable to communicate that, or nervous about communicating that, to our partner. Fortunately there are some conversation tips that might help you have the type of sex that you...

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  • Heather Corinna

I wish that I knew more about your relationship and your boyfriend than just this particular conflict. It'd also help to know what a word like "slutty" even means to him. After all, slut is one of those words that's a lot like the word god: what it means to one person can be radically different than...

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  • Heather Corinna

It's up to you to decide if this was sex and if this had anything to do with virginity. What I can do to help you with that is give you some definitions, backgrounds and perspective on those terms, some advice on making sexual choices in alignment with what you really want and feel ready for and...

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  • Heather Corinna

Does your relationship need a basic checkup to be sure it's healthy and well? Here's a list for doing just that.

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  • Heather Corinna

What's it mean to be questioning, why would you or someone else identify that way, how do you deal in the process and how might you answer the question?

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  • Heather Corinna

You probably hear the term "healthy relationship" a lot. But what does that mean, and how do you create -- and keep building -- one of those?

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  • Heather Corinna

I don't think it's very realistic to expect most of us to feel the exact same way, or "equally," about all men, all women or all people whose gender is outside of that binary. I'm not even sure, I have to say, what feeling "equally" about people, period, would be. People are so radically different...