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A partner telling you not to use toys is engaging in controlling behavior. You have agency over your own sexuality.

Opening up to yourself and to another person physically may take time, but it is absolutely possible.

In recovery, you can give yourself the time, space and permission you need to find more comfort in yourself as you rebuild your relationship to sexuality.

Recent studies show that, when it comes to sex, there are overlapping issues that ADHDers share.

“How do I enjoy sex?” is hardly a question that’s unique to intersex people, but some of the answers to that question are different than they might be for people who aren’t intersex.

It’s common to feel hesitant about having sex again in the postpartum period. Let’s talk through some of the changes you can expect and what you can do if you are feeling ready to safely get your sexy back on.

I believe that sexual pleasure with someone else can only truly be found through vulnerability, through the radical act of maybe not knowing, in being willing to potentially even embarrass yourself in the pursuit of something greater.

This is a situation with many layers, so I’m not surprised you feel such a mixture of emotions, especially feelings of detachment. First, I want to encourage you to give yourself space to recognize how challenging this situation is and how there is no template for what you’re feeling. This will…

In my experience, disclosure is an ongoing conversation and there is no single “correct” way to do it, but there are ways our partners can be stronger allies.

What does sexual attraction feel like? It can feel many different ways for many different people. Here are some of them!