incompatibility

Advice
  • Heather Corinna

Before I say anything else, I want to address about those feelings of shame and inadequacy you had -- from the sounds of it, are still having -- when your partner told you his feelings about your sex life. Someone feeling like their sexual life or interactions with someone else aren't satisfying, or...

Advice
  • Heather Corinna

He doesn't want to engage in sex with condoms (or, I assume, anything that would reduce your risks of pregnancy or sexually transmitted infections). You don't want to engage in sex without those things. So, your limit, a limit you need to make clear to him, is that you won't engage in sex without...