Have you experienced jealousy while in a relationship (including with friends)?

How safe (free from danger & harm) do you feel identifying your gender around people of a different gender?

All I want is to be held.... but that's not what keeps happening.

I am in the predicament of wanting a man to hold me but suspecting that I have not yet mastered my ability to honor my boundaries. When I have asked men to just hold me, they never keep their word, and after becoming turned on from the contact, I lose the will to turn down their advances....