masturbation

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  • Heather Corinna

A page if you're someone who does not want to take ANY risk, at all, of a pregnancy, and wants to know your options.

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  • Heather Corinna

I'm afraid that there isn't a whole lot I can do for you, Guyman. You're right: it is totally normal right now for you to feel strong sexual desires, and to get pretty excited when you're around people that you're attracted to. It's also certainly more profound because of your age. It does settle...

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  • Heather Corinna

There isn't anything TO do save to wait for when she does also want to have sex with you. Really, have a think about this. Would you want it any other way? Who would want to have sex with someone who didn't want to have sex with them just as much? And unless both people really want to, is it really...

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  • Heather Corinna

Before I say anything else, understand that you've got nothing to be scared about here, okay? You also don't need to feel embarrassed about not knowing this stuff: not only do plenty of adult women not know either, it's certainly not your fault that no one has given you thorough sex education or...

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  • Heather Corinna

When you don't know the answer to something or can't find it, it's never, ever stupid to ask a question. What would be stupid is NOT to ask! Too, women -- and plenty of people of other genders -- are very often taught little to nothing about their sexual response systems and cycles, so not knowing...

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  • Heather Corinna

Sounds like it's just time to mix it up a bit. There isn't a lot we can say about sexuality that is generally applicable to everyone -- save that we're all awfully diverse -- but one thing we do know is that habit or routines tend to be a buzzkill for a lot of people when it comes to sex. So, if we...

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  • Heather Corinna

You know, when we're just plain horny -- rather than interested in really sharing sex, emotionally and physically, with another person -- the best choice to make is to masturbate. That's not just best for us, it's also better for any potential partners: if often isn't so great to be someone's...

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  • Sarah Riley

While gloves are helpful for making sure that no ejaculate reaches your genitals during manual sex, the primary benefit is that things are both clean and smooth. Obviously, hands tend to carry tons of bacteria. Just think about all of the things that your hands or your partner's hands come into...

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  • Heather Corinna

Well, if you're just feeling strong sexual desire, not any attachment to that particular person, then masturbation is generally the best solution. Really, that's the thing to do, always, when we don't want intimacy with someone else, but only or solely want to just satisfy our own sexual needs and...

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  • Heather Corinna

One of the absolute worst reasons to have sex -- and a great way to assure that the sex you have won't leave you feeling great physically or emotionally -- is because everyone else is doing it, or because you feel left out. When you have sex with a partner, it should be about you and about that...