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If you've had/have any kind of partnered sex, in what interpersonal context has it MOST often happened?

In a long-term romantic relationship lasting over 6 months.

In a romantic relationship lasting 3-6 months.

In a romantic relationship I've been in for less than 3 months.

In a brand new romance that's a couple/few weeks old.

In a long-term friendship lasting over 6 months.

In a friendship lasting 3-6 months.

In a friendship less than 3 months old.

In a brand new friendship that's a couple/few weeks old.

In an ongoing relationship that's explicitly sexual: not friendship or romance.

In a new dating relationship that's a couple/few weeks old.

With an acquaintence who's neither a friend nor a boyfriend/girlfriend.

With someone I only just met, but who other friends know.

With a stranger, someone I only just met by myself.

It's been an even mix of more than one of those choices.

In another context, or it's just hard to pick one (tell us more in the comments).

I have not had any kind of sex with a partner.

Choices

Have you been sexually assaulted or abused?

I identify as a woman: I have been sexually assaulted or abused.

I identify as a woman: I had sex when I did not want to, but do not call it sexual assault or abuse.

I identify as a woman, and I'm not sure.

I identify as a woman: I have NOT been sexually assaulted or sexually abused.

I identify as genderqueer/fluid or agender: I have been sexually assaulted or abused.

I identify as genderqueer/fluid or agender: I had sex when I did not want to, but do not call it sexual assault or abuse.

I identify as genderqueer/fluid or agender, and I'm not sure.

I identify as genderqueer/fluid or agender: I have NOT been sexually assaulted or sexually abused.

I identify as a man: I have been sexually assaulted or abused.

I identify as a man: I had sex when I did not want to, but do not call it sexual assault or abuse.

I identify as a man, and I'm not sure.

I identify as a man: I have NOT been sexually assaulted or sexually abused.

Choices

If you're sexually active, who's usually the person who initiates (starts) any kind of sex?

Me, and I identify as a woman

Me, and I identify as a man

Me, and I identify as genderqueer, agender, something else or am fluid

My partner(s), and they usually identify as women

My partner(s), and they usually identify as men

My partner(s), and they usually identify as genderqueer, agender, something else or are fluid

My partner(s), and their gender varies

It's a mix, and I identify as a woman

It's a mix, and I identify as a man

It's a mix, and I identify as genderqueer, agender, something else or am fluid

I have not been sexually active in any way.

Choices

If you've had sexual partners, how have you usually found out if/when they have been tested for STIs?

They told me they had, for which STIs (sexually transmitted infections) exactly and on what date.

They told me they had, but only when, not for which STIs.

They told me they had, but only for which STIs, not when.

They told me they had, but with no specific information.

They showed me their last test results, on paper.

I was with them when they called in to get their results.

We went to get tested together then shared our results.

My partner hasn't been tested, but said they have only had me as a partner.

My partner hasn't been tested, but said their previous partners had no STIs.

It's been different with each partner.

I haven't asked any of my partners about their STI status.

I haven't had sexual partners.

Other (tell us in the comments)

Choices

How many partners for oral, vaginal or anal sex have you had? (only answers from those under 25 years old, please)

None

One

Two

Three

Four

Five

Five to ten

Ten to fifteen

Fifteen to twenty

Twenty to thirty

More than thirty

Choices

From what place or people do you experience the MOST pressure about sex?

Friends

Parents or guardians

Current or potential sexual partners

Friends of current or potential partners

Television or films

Print media (books, magazines)

Websites

How have your experiences been with sexual/reproductive healthcare?

Excellent: I've been treated well, gotten what I need and had great healthcare providers.

Good: my needs have been met, I have been cared for well, but it could have been better.

Fair: it hasn't been great, but it hasn't been bad, either.

Bad: I didn't get all I needed or asked for or my providers weren't good or helpful.

Awful: I have been outright mistreated in some way, or was unreasonably denied what I needed.

I have not yet had any kind of sexual healthcare.

Choices

How good is your communication with partners with any kind of sex?

I'm female-identified: I usually communicate what I want, like and don't want/like sexually.

I'm female-identified: I sometimes communicate what I want, like and don't want/like sexually.

I'm female-identified: I don't usually communicate what I want, like and don't want/like sexually.

I'm male-identified: I usually communicate what I want, like and don't want/like sexually.

I'm male-identified: I sometimes communicate what I want, like and don't want/like sexually.

I'm male-identified: I don't usually communicate what I want, like and don't want/like sexually.

I identify non-binarily: I usually communicate what I want, like and don't want/like sexually.

I identify non-binarily: I sometimes communicate what I want, like and don't want/like sexually.

I identify non-binarily: I don't usually communicate what I want, like and don't want/like sexually.

I have not had any kind of partnered sex.

Choices

How safe (free from danger & harm) do you feel identifying your gender around people of a different gender?

I was assigned female sex, identify as a woman and I feel safe.

I was assigned female sex, identify as a woman and I feel somewhat safe.

I was assigned female sex, identify as a woman and I feel unsafe.

I was assigned male sex, identify as a man and I feel safe.

I was assigned male sex, identify as a man and I feel somewhat safe.

I was assigned male sex, identify as a man and I feel unsafe.

I am trans gender, identify as a woman and I feel safe.

I am trans gende, identify as a woman and I feel somewhat safe.

I am trans gender, identify as a woman and I feel unsafe.

I am trans gender, identify as a man and I feel safe.

I am trans gender, identify as a man and I feel somewhat safe.

I am trans gender, identify as a man and I feel unsafe.

I am genderqueer/gendervariant/agender and I feel safe.

I am genderqueer/gendervariant/agender and I feel somewhat safe.

I am genderqueer/gendervariant/agender and I feel unsafe.

Choices

How safe (free from danger & harm) do you feel telling other people about your sexual orientation?

I'm hetero/straight and feel completely safe.

I'm hetero/straight and feel somewhat safe.

I'm hetero/straight and feel unsafe.

I'm bisexual/pansexual and feel completely safe.

I'm bisexual/pansexual and feel somewhat safe.

I'm bisexual/pansexual and feel unsafe.

I'm gay or lesbian and feel completely safe.

I'm gay or lesbian and feel somewhat safe.

I'm gay or lesbian and feel unsafe.

Choices

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