My experience with sex (of any kind) with partners has been that:

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Just an FYI: not asking about assault or abuse here.

We're talking about partnered sex (not rape, not abuse), meaning sex when everyone involved is consenting and willingly engaging in sex together.

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It would be a lie to say that it was awesome every time, but my overall experience has been quite positive. I can't think of a time when it was *bad*.

The consentual intimacy was good, every time. But this was before I finally admitted that I had been sexually abused and still had all those memories repressed. Now, I can't see sex ever being enjoyable, let alone not painful.

It's been great for my partner pretty much every time, but I just don't get much enjoyment out of it.

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