expectations
When the Big O is a No-Show
Brandyf817
I am having a problem orgasming, like most women. I am 24 years old. I have tried masturbating myself thinking it will be more relaxing and easier, but its not. The problem I am having is I get so close, but I can't get all the way. I start to feel pleasure, then I feel my muscles start to tense up and spaz a little, but then it gets PAINFUL that I jerk away and can't make it to the orgasm....
How can we have sex if he finishes before we even get started?
snapplefact
I have an amazing boyfriend. He's thoughtful, considerate and sweet - not to mention super cute - everything I've ever wanted. He likes me a lot, too, and he's always telling me how much he likes me and how beautiful I am and all that good stuff. The problem is, I think he likes me a little TOO much. We haven't had sex yet, but I don't know if we can!...
I'm worried that partnered sex won't be as good as masturbation!
rose789
I have a question about the way I masturbate: it feels best when I am rubbing myself light and fast through a layer of clothing, like underwear or something, and tightening my inside muscles at the same time. I can orgasm easily like this, and have multiple orgasms if I keep going....
I'm ready to go all the time but he never wants it...does that mean he is gay?
alluneedislove
Later into our relationship my boyfriend and I (both 17) had a lot of disagreements over sex. He rarely was "in the mood" while I was often ready to go. When I talked to my friends, they just said he was gay for not wanting to do anything with me. Could there be some other reason why he doesn't want to do sexual things with me?...
Societal and Familial Disapproval of an Age-Disparate Relationship
ccangl
I'm 21 years old and my boyfriend is 52. The age difference does not matter to me or to him but it bothers me that our families do not approve of the relationship. We love each other and even want to get married. Our sex life is great, we are on the same level spiritually and have lot in common....
Bist Du Bereit Fuer Sex? Die Checkliste
Ein paar kleine Anmerkungen Vorweg: Dies ist eine Uebersetzung der originalen “Sex Readiness Checklist”. Dort gibt es ein paar Konzepte, die schwer mit einem Wort ins Deutsche zu uebersetzen sind. Deswegen werde ich sie hier vorab erklaeren.
We waited two years for good sex together... and even after sex, we're still waiting.
Jennifer
I only started having sex about 3 months ago. I'm 20 and I made my fiancee wait almost 2 years. The problem that I noticed is that I never orgasm when he's inside. He has no problem with using his fingers on me but why can't I when he is inside....
Upstairs, downstairs
Anonymous
I couldn't get it up and I'm 19! It was going to be the first time for me and my girlfriend, but the man downstairs didn't respond! I didn't feel nervous, I felt confident that I would be fine. But when the mood struck I couldn't deliver. Now not only do I feel like crud, I'm hoping that the next time it happens that the little soldier downstairs decides to take some action......
What does sex feel like?
Curious
I have never had sex before, and before I do I want to really know what it is like from other people. I want to know what it feels like. ...
But I still want more!
Amanda
How do I turn my boyfriend on again after we already had sex one time? I am a pretty good looking young girl and I like to have sex more than once a day if its on the weekend, and not planned sex either. Like if I feel like my boyfriend looks really good I want to show that. But after we have sex it only lasts for like 5-6 minutes and then he's done, and I am just getting started....