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Hi Pan,

We can't say for certain what, exactly, you're experiencing, but it could be that stimulating yourself this way causes some sensitivity that fades away once you stop (similar to how a penis will be a bit sensitive after being stimulated). As long as it doesn't become painful, or start happening at times when you aren't masturbating this way, it's unlikely to be a cause for concern.

Hi thanks sam...now i am not much concerning about my self anal penetration ...i am ok and i think you are right that stimulating myself in this way can causes some sensitivity in this way in my rectum...so may be i will continue to playing this way because i don't have any side effects. And i think i am doing in proper ways with safety!!.thanks a lot for wonderful response...this site is really great!!!..love you Scarlett..you are so helpful to me!!
Anyway...i really want to discuss about "RIMMING"..
First of all let me clear RIMMING means one partner lick other partner anal that call Rimming ...AM I RIGHT??..OR IT HAS ANY OTHER MEANING??
actually i heard lot about rimming...and i saw porn as well about RIMMING...but i don't feel good because there is some fecal matter always there...its feel so gross!!..if you have any advice that how to perform RIMMING In safe ways than please tell me because porn is not the best thing to learn...i am straight man like pegging for prostate health....so in future if i want RIMMING from my wife than how can i give her proper guidance about rimming???

And same in future if i will RIMMING my wife butt than how to perform RIMMING in safe way??..

I haven't try RIMMING till now...but i really want to do...but just concern about fecal material from anus!!
Thanks

Hi Pan,

Yep, as far as I know "rimming" only refers to mouth to anus contact. In order to do it as safely as possible, you'd want to use a dental dam as a barrier between you and your partner (you can find out all about dental dams here: All the Barriers! All the Time!). As far as talking about rimming with a partner, the best way to go about it is to communicate before, during, and after about what feels good (and what doesn't feel good).

Hi Pan,

Stimulating a sensitive area like your anus might cause some long-lasting sensation, so that might explain the itching.

When you say you are washing with soap, do you mean you get soap inside your butt? That could cause some irritation. Washing outside your anus with soap is fine, but try to avoid getting soap inside your butt/anus. As long as you're using clean toys and/or clean fingers/glove each time, you don't need to wash inside.

If the itching goes away after a few hours and you don't experience any other discomfort of pain, no need to worry about it.

Thanks bird chirping for wonderful reply!!
I think i feel like itching because of sensation ...yep you are true may be!!..i felt sensation during my anal play..but as i said now i dont feel any discomfort i am fine now... sensation like itching happened just after some my butt play so i dont need to worry i think
And yes i used soap only outside of my anus..and whole butt...i don't put soap inside my asshole..and i use clean finger and clean toys every time..
I am happy that you read my post and gave wonderful advise...thanks

Pan wrote:Thanks bird chirping for wonderful reply!!
I think i feel like itching because of sensation ...yep you are true may be!!..i felt sensation during my anal play..but as i said now i dont feel any discomfort i am fine now... sensation like itching happened just after some my butt play so i dont need to worry i think
And yes i used soap only outside of my anus..and whole butt...i don't put soap inside my asshole..and i use clean finger and clean toys every time..
I am happy that you read my post and gave wonderful advise...thanks

You are welcome!

Hi Scarlett,,
Thanks for this wonderful support about taboo things like anal ..
Anyway after long time today i did solo sex with my Anal with my toy...this time i noticed when i rubbed my nipple i had small amount of hair on my finger because on my chest i have some hair..so i just want to know that if hair went in my Anal canal than it is any problem??..and during this stuff i had lot of sweat out their it also went in my anal during fingering...so i just want to make sure is this any problem??..or it will come out automatically when i will do toilet..i think..right?
I know it quite embarrassing things to discuss but i can't share my feelings with anyone...!! sorry!

And everytime i played with my butthole some amount of feces still their...i think its normal and now i didn't mind..i am used to it..i think it is common during anal sex...right? But i just want to know this feces happened to everyone ??Or i can stop this feces completely ...any advice??.
Thanks to you always..

Hi Pan,

I don't think that a little bit of hair will be a problem. Yes, it is normal for there to be small amounts of feces when you do anal play - there's not a good way to avoid it entirely. Just make sure you wash your hands, toys and the outside of your anus thoroughly before and after.

Hi thanks sian..yes i did exactly same as you mentioned above...sorry for late reply..
You know what big thank to you and your whole team.. actually i am heterogeneous guy... Earlier i felt shame bcz i like to play in my Anal and with my butt..than i found on Internet that its absolutely fine with this kind of fetish.Than i met Scarlett and share my this things and feelings..and honestly first i felt awkward to share this kind of things but i shared with you(scarletteen) ..and after so much conversation between us now i do not feel shame about self anal play bcz now i understood that All people have different Differennt kind of fetish and it is absolutely fine with this kind of fetish bcz we get pleasure from this things and respect each other feelings and likes and dislikes...now i feel confident and it will definitely help me with my future life partner..this sites help me a lot for boosting my confidence in sex education and various kind of fetish..so again Big Thank you
God bless to your team!!

I'm really glad that finding Scarleteen has helped you feel comfortable in your sexuality!

Hi scarletteen,
So in anal sex whatever we put in our anus it will automatically suck by our body right....so body can suck lube/virus from my anus ..right..
So suppose if i put my toy in my anus during solo buttplay and if some small amount of material from that toy will remain in my rectum/anus..than what happened in that case?..can body suck this type of material from my rectum??

So basically which type of things body can suck during anal play ???..
Love you always

Hi Pan,

While I don't entirely understand your question -- it seems like you're asking if small pieces of material can stay behind in your anus? We'd recommend only using toys that are safe and one solid piece, with a flanged base, for such activities. A flanged base means it's wider at the base or otherwise shaped in a way that it won't get lost. If you insert smaller materials into your anus then, yes, that could become a medical emergency. Does that make sense?