Prepping for Anal
Posted: Tue Sep 12, 2023 12:18 pm
I am a trans man (only medical transition at this point is testosterone). I am starting to see a cisgender man who is really amazing, however neither of us are comfortable bottoming. I have tried vaginal insertion in the past and have always found it both painful and dysphoric. He is aware of this and is fully supportive of my boundaries and keeping things to just hand stuff. We understand that sex is only a part of our relationship and we mix well in other ways that matter more to us.
However, I am interested in receiving anal since it removes the dysphoria factor. I want to try some things on my own first to make sure I'm comfortable with it. I am planning to get a dildo and lube to try on myself but I really don't know what it means to prep for insertion.
Should I always use a condom on a dildo for sanitary reasons? What things should I know before trying to prep for any anal insertion? Are there any better small steps I should try first?
Thank you all in advance!
However, I am interested in receiving anal since it removes the dysphoria factor. I want to try some things on my own first to make sure I'm comfortable with it. I am planning to get a dildo and lube to try on myself but I really don't know what it means to prep for insertion.
Should I always use a condom on a dildo for sanitary reasons? What things should I know before trying to prep for any anal insertion? Are there any better small steps I should try first?
Thank you all in advance!