I still cant ejaculate.

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Magicarp778
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I still cant ejaculate.

Unread post by Magicarp778 »

I am 13 and 5 months and I still cant ejaculate and I really want to but im worried I will never be able to, Please help me.
Sam W
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Re: I still cant ejaculate.

Unread post by Sam W »

Hi Magicarp778,

It sounds like this is really stressing you out! If it helps to know, people don't hit the exact same stage of puberty at the exact same age, so sometimes a certain part of it (like first ejaculation) comes a little later for you than it does for your peers. But there's no reason to assume you'll never be able to ejaculate.

Too, if you've been masturbating and are stressing out about whether or not you're going to ejaculate, that can actually make ejaculation less likely, because pressure or stress is a big-time arousal killer. Does that all make sense?
Magicarp778
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Joined: Wed May 05, 2021 3:17 pm
Age: 13
Awesomeness Quotient: I am good at baseball
Primary language: english
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Location: Ontario

Re: I still cant ejaculate.

Unread post by Magicarp778 »

Yeah, Thanks I guess I will try to stop stressing it and just let it happen when it happens. Thanks for the help Sam W.
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