Hi guys,
I am a 25 yr female, software developer. I am dating someone for the past 3 months. He is a general physician. He is very caring and we have great Compatability. I am attracted towards him and I am falling for him. There is one problem though. I have PCOS(Poly cystic ovarian syndrome). So I am very keen on diet and fitness. I told him about this and how keen I am to have children in 2 years. He told he had undescended testis in the abdomen as a child and had a surgery at 15 years of age(late surgery... should have been done within 1 year of age) to bring the testis back to scrotum. Now he says everything is fine. But I still have doubts. He told he consulted an endocrinologist and took tests two years back and found out everything was normal. When I googled, Semen Analysis was one test that had to be taken to check for infertility issues in men, which he missed. When I asked about it he told told it's irrelevant but he will take for my sake and I needn't worry about it. I tried asking him twice about it to take it As soon as possible. He told he will take next month because of COVID 19 problem, hospitals are at risk. I feel like I am pressurising him. I don't know how to handle it. I love him but having a child has always been my dream and I am afraid it won't happen if I marry him. I have talked to him about all this and he is very understanding. But I am thinking of the negative possibilities and breaking my head. My feelings are going high and low. What to do? Do I leave him for the sake of this issue or wait till the tests and go forward with the relationship?