Yeah I should’ve have watched it. I’m not going to give any more attention to it. If someone mentions it it’s problematic but I’m not going to give it the satisfaction of being in the spotlight. I can’t stop others from consuming it but I sure as hell can stop myself!
I feel like part of the problem with these films is that they show more “taboo” forms of sex and we have such sexual shame in our society that we crave to see these things. I think undoing our sexual shame and treating sex as normal and not “bad” could go a long way in how we change media and entertainment, actually portraying healthily sexual and romantic relationships on screen. I’m a writer by heart, and while I doubt I’ll be making the big screen any soon perhaps I can use my skills to create more sex positive stories? It certainly wouldn’t hurt