For a long time, whenever I masturbate, I tend to rub my vulva area through my shorts and underwear- and I’ve never had a problem with it! I always do it wearing a pantyliner so I don’t get my underwear messy!
A while ago, one of my friends told me how fingering was amazing, and I have never fingered myself! So at home, I pulled down my panties (I had washed my hands), then tried to stick my right middle finger into my vaginal opening (I think that’s where I’m supposed to put it), but I didn’t feel so turned on? I even tried to gently rub the area above my vaginal opening (like the clitoris area), but I didn’t feel anything. Not to mention, when I was trying to finger myself, it felt so tight? And almost uncomfortable!
I do feel pleasure whenever I rub my vulva area through my shorts/underwear, and I’ve used a vibrator and that feels good, too! I’ve tried to finger myself a few times, and once it only felt good, but that was because I rubbed my vulva area through my pants. Even then, I could feel the ‘climax’ slowly… disappear? Like I was getting so close to climax, but when I started fingering myself, I felt like I was getting farther from it.
To finish this up, I don’t know where my clitoris is. I’ve looked at as many different pictures of labeled vulvas while looking at my vulva with a mirror, but I just can’t seem to find it. Like I said, I get pleasure whenever I rub myself, but I still don’t know where it is.
Thank you for help!:)