I'm a 16 year old female and I’ve never had an orgasm. I understand that this is not an unusual occurrence but I was hoping I could not be one of the girls late to the pleasure game. I’ve been with my boyfriend for over a year and we have been sexually active for nearly 8 months and fooling around for longer. I have never had an orgasm with or without my boyfriend. I have done a lot of research and haven’t found the answers I’m looking for. I even asked my doctor but she couldn’t help me. My boyfriend feels like a failure because he’s not able to provide the pleasure of an orgasm for me. I am on the pill and I’m always incredibly emotional within a week of my period. Could this be lack of hormonal outlet? I’ve read articles that say to practice everyday but this is not possible for me because I don’t have a place that I am fully comfortable and relaxed nor do I have the time. My clit has never been very sensitive but my g-spot gets me closer. The only way I have found that gets me anywhere close to an orgasm is using any unbending object to hit my g-spot as hard and as fast as I physically can, (it’s not uncommon for me to bleed). When I get to the point where I would expect to orgasm I just burst into tears. It happens ever time. It’s like the orgasm is going up instead of down like it’s supposed to. How do I redirect this energy so that I feel good? How can I have an orgasm?