Pregnancy fear

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Pregnancy fear

Unread postby ailurophiledork » Sat Feb 22, 2020 5:47 am

Hey scarleteen, its been a while, so ive read your posts about pregnancy fears but i still cant help shake my anxiety and fear, im in my ovulation days, my boyfriend and i were making out and one thing leads to another and he was dry humping me and he was using this thick material pants and i was using a dress and an underwear underneath but he lift up my dress and i can feel his pants around my underwear, and he came (orgasmed) inside his pants and i can see a bit of “stain” around his pants, im scared that its possible for me to be pregnant.. can you give me some advice and share me your thoughts, thank you

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Re: Pregnancy fear

Unread postby Sam W » Sat Feb 22, 2020 9:08 am

We will not answer ANY questions about pregnancy fear or anxiety in our direct services from users who are not pregnant or who are not or have not otherwise been directly involved with an actual pregnancy.

Please do not post this kind of question. If you are seeing this text, and your thread is locked, it is because you have posted this kind of question.

We CAN and WILL talk about things like:
• choosing and using a method or methods of contraception for any future sexual activity
• creating your own sexual limits and boundaries based on your needs and/or presenting them to any partners
• making sexual choices that suit your own needs, abilities and limitations, including your own readiness for certain possible risks
• help locating or using emergency contraception if and when you have had a pregnancy risk
• discussing options with a real, existing pregnancy, and help finding and accessing those options, such as abortion services and pre-natal care, or discussing feelings or concerns about a past pregnancy
• help with anxiety like locating mental health services, sound self-help or asking for support from friends or family

For help dealing with a scare (including what poses a risk and your next steps based on your unique situation), you may use our tool on site built for this purpose: The Pregnancy Panic Companion.
For help with anxiety, click here.
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