End of 3 year relationship

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End of 3 year relationship

Unread postby Neatoburrito » Sun Sep 23, 2018 10:52 am

My boyfriend of 3 years broke up with me 2 days ago. I’m so sad but also so mad because a day after it happened he went on a date with another girl. He didn’t even give it time. It was already bad enough and he made it worse. I just wanna die and get this over with. He was just such a big part of my life and he’s throwing it away so easily. Everyone’s been telling me not to worry and that it’ll be okay but i can’t help but feeling like i want death. Help.

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Re: End of 3 year relationship

Unread postby alice » Sun Sep 23, 2018 8:32 pm

Hi Neatoburrito,

I am so sorry to hear about your break-up :( I am hearing that you have become suicidal since the break-up. Suicidal feelings or impulses are very serious things.

While we are able to talk with you about navigating break-ups, we are not equipped with the proper resources to handle suicidal impulses. So before we can talk with you about the break-up, we need to make sure that you're safe from harm.

Is there someone in-person you feel safe telling that you are feeling suicidal? You can also go to your local ER for immediate help. Another option is to call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 1-800-273-8255. In addition, here is a list of Suicide Hotlines in Indiana: http://www.suicide.org/hotlines/indiana ... lines.html.

Your safety is an absolute priority so please take the time to talk with someone you trust, go to the ER, and/or call one of these lifelines.

I am thinking of you and sending you love Neatoburrito. I have so much hope for your future.


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