I am having health issues related to my vulva that i believe i need medical help for but i am scared of seeking this help. it is not something i feel comfortable sharing with my parents and i could schedule my own doctor's appointment but that also seems very scary and difficult, plus the idea of having to have a vulva/pelvic exam is scary (especially if done by a male doctor). just generally this whole situtation is giving me a lot of anxiety and i don't know what to do