hi! its been a bit!
so ig for some backstory i most likely have lupus (i say most likely bc our rheumatologist is pretty sure its that but she still isn’t 100% sure and needs to do more labs) and for me that comes with alot of joint and muscle pain, which worsens under certain circumstances.
this has made me extremely limited in terms of masturbation, as alot of positions and movements can be pretty painful for me and i have to stop. for example i do feel pleasure when it comes to things like humping pillows but due to the pain and discomfort i get while doing it i cant really do that, no matter how much i want to.
is there any advice on things i can do in terms of spicing up my sex life but limits the amount of pain i feel during it? thanks!!