Sexual Shame and Frustration

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staplesj_
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Sexual Shame and Frustration

Unread post by staplesj_ »

I feel shame about not being sexually active but I am working through the fear of the shame of being sexually active when that happens. I'm just horny all the time and when i have a release i feel deflated. I want my sexual experience to be more than getting off or feeling horny and turned on. i'll take sensual touching or making out so I know what that intimacy feels like so sex won't be so scary. I feel that I have the pottential to be a great lover but sexual shame from religion has set me back.

I just want to have sex and an encounter but I don't know where or how to make that happen.

Please help.
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Re: Sexual Shame and Frustration

Unread post by Carly »

Hey there -- we have quite a few threads going with you at the moment, and they're all very similar. Making multiple threads will make it harder for us to keep track of everything you're saying, which could make it harder for us to talk with you. Can I ask you to limit making new threads about this topic? You could copy and paste this post as another post in the thread that I recently responded to you in if you like.
staplesj_
not a newbie
Posts: 29
Joined: Thu Feb 16, 2023 11:05 am
Age: 26
Awesomeness Quotient: I'm left handed: )
Primary language: English
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Sexual identity: straight
Location: West Virginia

Re: Sexual Shame and Frustration

Unread post by staplesj_ »

I apologize : )

I'll do that.
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