Hi! I’ve been looking at this website and the different questions and answers for a while now, and tried a lot of things but i think it’s time i posted my own thing. I’m an 18 year old cis woman in a relationship and over the years I’ve tried masturbation, but no matter what i do I don’t feel any sort of sexual feeling. Penetration wise i can only get a finger in and it’s uncomfortable, so I’ve tried to focus on the clit and other areas but nothing works. It doesn’t matter if i use my finger, a vibrator, or my partner. It’s not an uncomfortable feeling down there, its just a bit boring and feels the same as when i touch any part of my body, even touching the clit feels no different to stroking my ear. I don’t feel anything when i kiss my partner either (I definitely love them, its not that) and I don’t know whether its just something my body just didn’t develop? It’s like nothing is wired up for that purpose. I get turned on pretty easily, its just doing anything about it that is the issue.
I’ve done loads of research and tried out loads of different things, sorry if you’re unable to suggest anything, I’m just a bit upset about it lol. Is it possible to just not be able to feel anything?
Thank you for reading this!!!